Uncle Mo's Cry Uncle Mo is 73 years old this year. If it is other old people, it should be the age to enjoy old age. If he is free, he will go to the park to play Tai Ji Chuan and Doby with his grandson. Life must be very comfortable, but Uncle Mo is different. At the age of 73, he has to take care of his 97-year-old mother. Having said that, Mo Bobo's eyes shed tears of helplessness.
Taking care of elderly parents is the responsibility and obligation of children. When we were young, our parents gave us selfless care and care, so our children have reason and obligation to give their parents a decent and peaceful old age. But for Mo Bobo, he tortured himself to exhaustion because of his mother's old age, because her mother lost the ability to take care of herself 20 years ago.
Uncle Mo's mother was almost paralyzed in bed 20 years ago. After retirement, Uncle Mo has been taking care of his paralyzed mother and sleeping with her every night. Because my mother is too old to turn over, every day Uncle Mo helps her turn over in the middle of the night.
Mother's digestive function has also deteriorated, and she can only eat a few things every meal, so she is very hungry. Uncle Mo always cooks for his mother during the day and eats about five meals a day. Mother is also very picky about food, because she has no teeth, so she can only cook all the food very soft, which takes a lot of time. Often she has just finished this meal and is about to prepare the next meal.
Uncle Mo finally made it to retirement and felt that he finally had time to do what he wanted to do. But because he has to take care of his elderly mother, he consumes a lot of time and energy every day. Taking care of the elderly is more complicated than work. Uncle Mo has lived like this for more than 20 years. As Uncle Mo's body is getting older, he feels more and more pressured to take care of his mother. He felt very wronged. Other old people are enjoying the care of their children, but he has to take care of the old people himself.
It can be seen that Uncle Mo is really suffering this time. He hasn't experienced Uncle Mo's life, so we can't blame him from the moral high ground. We have taken care of the elderly who are paralyzed in bed for 20 years. Ask yourself, how many people can do it? Uncle Mo has done a lot for his mother. Now, he hopes to have a peaceful old age and can understand it.
Longevity is not necessarily a good thing. Sometimes longevity is not necessarily a blessing, especially when we can't take care of ourselves, it will only bring a great burden to our families. No matter who this kind of thing is, it is a dilemma. On the one hand, we need to repay the kindness of our parents, but on the other hand, our personal will needs to be satisfied. Being restricted by the word "filial piety" for a long time, without time and energy to pursue what you want, people's mental pressure and life pressure will become great. What's more, for those old people who have lost their self-care ability and even their personal consciousness is gradually blurred, is it really a kind of happiness to live like this?
Once, my mother went out to visit her elder who was paralyzed in bed. After coming back, she told me seriously: "If one day I am old and paralyzed in bed, you must apply to the doctor for euthanasia by injection. I don't want to live without dignity like that. " She told us this sentence very firmly when she witnessed a patient who was paralyzed in bed and needed personal care at all times.
Perhaps it is enough for life to raise your children and send away your parents who raised you. Living too long is not necessarily a good thing. As the saying goes, "there is no dutiful son in front of the hospital bed." Everyone needs to do their best to repay their parents' kindness. However, if parents have become a heavy burden in life, there may be no resentment in children's hearts, but even so, I believe most people still hope that parents can live a healthy and happy life.
May parents in the world live a long and healthy life. It is the biggest regret in this world that children want to raise but are not around their loved ones. Parents are here, life is still there, parents are gone, and life is only home. I once read such a news that a 97-year-old father took his 76-year-old daughter to the fair, and the old father bought a juanhua for her daughter at the fair with trepidation. Seeing such news, he felt warm and inexplicably moved. Who doesn't want his parents to love him when he is 70 or 80?
As long as your parents are in this world, some people will still treat you as a child. This kind of happiness cannot be expressed in words. My grandmother is over 70 years old this year, but her spirit has been very good and her body is exceptionally strong. Every time my grandmother hears someone praise her for being young, she will proudly say to him, "I still have my mother." That kind of joy and pride is beyond words. Mother is here and home is there.
Once in the park, I saw such a scene, and my eyes were moist in an instant. Two seemingly 60-and 70-year-old people are pushing wheelchairs, and the 80-and 90-year-old father and mother are sitting in wheelchairs. Seeing this scene, I feel very warm. If we are old, we will still have parents waiting for us at home, even if it takes us a lot of time and energy to take care of them.
To tell the truth, I never think that parents will be a burden to us one day, because parents are the only people in the world who can think of us wholeheartedly. They always put their children first and themselves second when considering things. They are the only people in the world who will regard us as more important than themselves. Therefore, taking care of parents is a happy burden.
Mo Bobo's Solution For Mo Bobo, I believe he has his own difficulties and difficulties. Now everyone's life is under great pressure, and the elderly also have their own helplessness and grievances. However, it is difficult for honest officials to do housework, and every family has special entanglements and complicated situations, which require us to have good wisdom and emotional intelligence to deal with. If Uncle Mo feels too tired, he can discuss with other family members and let them take care of the elderly together with themselves.
It is true that all the responsibilities and burdens are placed on one person, and he is an old man, which is a bit embarrassing. Mo Bobo's family should also understand his sufferings and help him share the responsibilities and burdens on his shoulders, so that Mo Bobo can also get a break from the heavy pressure. Family members will face these problems together. Slowly, things will definitely get better. I believe everything will be solved.
Finally, I hope all parents in the world can live a long and healthy life and spend more time with their children.