what is a distant marriage? Where electric cars can't ride, my parents may think that it is far married.

The Chaoshan parents of the older generation are very opposed to their daughter marrying away from home, mainly because of the long geographical distance and inconvenient transportation, and they are also worried that their children will not adapt to life in other places.

My parents' original intention was that I would marry in a nearby village, so it would be convenient for me to go home during the Spring Festival. Even if I didn't marry well, I could always go back to my parents' home.

My husband is from Sichuan. When I first met him, I didn't think he was from outside the province at all.

We met when we worked in Shenzhen. He came out to work hard as a teenager, and he is also very practical.

Shenzhen is a very inclusive city, with many foreigners and rich language expressions.

I have been with my husband for so long, and I found that if I don't tell others that he is from Sichuan, others won't know that he is from Sichuan.

We don't have much difference in taste. On the contrary, I like spicy food. He eats lightly.

after a year together, I took him back to his hometown to meet his parents, grandparents and all the elders. I hope my family will recognize him.

Through his efforts, he really won the approval of my elders, perhaps because we bought a house here in Guangdong and settled down, which reduced our parents' worries.

It's quick to go home by high-speed train or drive. I will go home to see my parents from time to time.

When we first got together, we discussed going to Sichuan for the Spring Festival and going back to my home for Lantern Festival.

Because the Lantern Festival is not very popular in Sichuan, and there will be activities of worshipping God in my hometown, which is quite lively. This is what we have been doing in recent years.

We have never had a conflict because of where to go for the Spring Festival, so I am quite satisfied with my husband at this point.

Let's talk about getting along with my in-laws. I'm not used to Sichuan food. I like bacon and sausage.

my in-laws will also cook my favorite dishes according to my taste, instead of cooking them very spicy.

I have different living habits from my in-laws. We can respect each other, understand each other and don't force each other.

I don't spend much time with my in-laws, so there's nothing to argue about or be unhappy about.

Counting the four years that we have gone hand in hand, we have also upgraded to be parents this year, and we especially understand our parents' worries.

it's not bad to marry far away, but to choose the right person, who decides whether there is any problem with it.

Thanks to my husband's love and tolerance for me all the time, which makes me feel that it is a decision that I don't regret.

girls often ask me: I like my boyfriend, but once we get married, I'm far away. What should I do?

Marriage has a long way to go, so we should go well from the beginning, especially those young men and women who are emotionally stable and have plans to enter marriage. We should always ask ourselves: Are you really ready?

The "preparation" here does not simply refer to the wedding preparation. Relatively speaking, the material preparation is much simpler, and many problems will be solved when the money is in place.

What we should pay more attention to is "psychological preparation", whether we are ready to accept each other completely, including their strengths and weaknesses, small temper and great truth.

It's a long life, and you may encounter accidents. Ask yourself in your heart whether you can help each other no matter what happens, and face all kinds of problems after marriage together.

In other words, are the two parties really fully prepared to enter the marriage role-for the sake of humanity, motherhood, husband, husband, willing to sacrifice some habits when they are single, make some concessions for the family, and assume the responsibilities and obligations that are consistent with their marriage roles from the overall situation of the family?

after entering marriage, how to manage the marriage will directly determine the success or failure of the marriage.

A woman who can manage a marriage meets a loving man. After they get together, life will naturally be icing on the cake.

I would also like to remind all female friends that women should first have a rational mind when running a marriage, that is, they should not lose themselves at any time.

Secondly, we should constantly enrich ourselves and improve ourselves, so that we can bravely face uncertain things in the long river of years.

whether you are married to a wealthy housewife or become a housewife, the feelings that you can grow up with your husband often go further.

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