I had a conversation with a friend about the word "romantic" before, so I even looked in the dictionary. He was criticized, "Can we still chat, can we be friends? It's too scripted...the rules and regulations...are rigid and dogmatic."
You deserve to have no partner, right?
Maybe I will never talk about "romance" with this person again. But I'm afraid I'll suffocate to death. I still want to express that the romance I understand may not be so "dead".
I look at the glyphs: the word "romantic" is next to the word "water", tenderness is a must. The spreading agility is filled with emotions that are about to overflow.
I look at the pronunciation: In fact, "romantic" comes from the evolution of the transliteration of the Western word Romantic, and its function is to translate "Romantic". Although I just think "man" sounds a bit similar.
The dictionary says: The actions or words of one or more people that achieve positive meanings such as touching and happy for the person or thing you love, and can be remembered for a period of time or longer. It’s called “romance.”
Romantic means indulgent, romantic, poetic, full of fantasy; informal (in terms of a couple relationship).
Su Shi's "Traveling with Meng Zhen to the Monk's House in Changzhou" mentioned that "I realized that this life was floating in my mind, and I also took a romantic trip to Sanwu." The word "romantic" in it is not what we call it now. of "romance".
The ancients only used the literal meaning of "water" to convey spiritual and dynamic meaning.
Nowadays, "romantic" is a little more sentimental. How about calling it "romantic"?
Actually, what I have never expressed and almost choked to death due to the phrase "I deserve to have no partner" is this:
Romance is "romantic" and "slow".
You don’t need an oar to row a boat, and you don’t need wind to raise a sail. Life depends on waves.
Wave after wave. (Don’t think wrongly)
As long as it doesn’t violate laws and ethics, you’re free to do whatever you want. Just be happy. You can speak boldly, act boldly, and laugh wildly.
You can open your heart, be wild, unrestrained, actively pursue and embrace happiness.
Dare to love and hate, be free and unrestrained. Generous, simple and straightforward, free and natural.
At the same time, we must learn to communicate, learn to tolerate, and learn to understand.
Especially between couples, they should give up their restraints, relax their mood, let their hearts fly, and both parties should be their truest selves. Don’t try to prevent the other party from “flying” higher, but you must also be understanding and tolerant and communicate in a timely manner.
As long as you do not violate ethics, neighborhood harmony, and your own conscience, you can "wander" to heaven. Exactly how, I don't know. . .
If you have any dissatisfaction, just say it directly, don’t hold it in.
"Lang" also requires responsibility and sentiment, IQ and EQ.
There is a wave in Langdang~
Change the word "water" next to the word "vertical heart" to be more affectionate and attentive.
To be passionate and attentive means to be leisurely and enjoy it with your heart to create an emotional atmosphere.
Let’s cook a candlelight dinner together, study recipes, wash clothes, make coffee, fry steaks, and plant flowers and plants together. The bells and drums in the morning and the drums in the evening will be at peace. We will hold your hand and grow old together with you. Let’s take a walk together after dinner and enjoy the sunshine together after lunch.
Of course, this "passionate and attentive" feeling only comes when you "slow down".
Because only by "slowing down" can we be in the mood to enjoy life.
"Slow" life, "slow" taste, don't be in such a hurry. The fast pace of looking at flowers and swallowing jujube often ignores many essential elements. Only when we "slow down" can we "slow down". See Nanshan leisurely."
Just like when we drive by, we can never see the landscape buildings on both sides of the street. Only when we ride a bicycle or walk can we go deep into the city streets and understand its style and posture. (Sorry, I’m getting professional again. It’s very necessary to create a chronic transportation system)
When you slow down, your mind becomes calm. With a calm mind, you can see more clearly.
When you slow down, the love becomes deeper. The deeper the love, the longer it lasts.
(I really admire those who have been in love for several years, do you really not bother each other...)
"Slow up" and "slow down".
There is water and affection, and the waves are tender. The sound lasts forever.
Come, let’s “wave” together “slowly”~~