If I only look at the eight dishes and one soup you made, it is indeed quite hearty and pretty good. Your husband is just too picky and a bit unruly. But do you need four pounds of tomatoes for your tomato and egg soup? It’s not very realistic. Is the ribs a little less per pound? It sounds like what you're talking about is watery. However, two people should discuss how to live together. If you know your husband well, you can also ask your husband for his opinion before and ask him what he should do to prevent this kind of thing from happening.
Let’s understand each other, and I wish you reconciliation and better days!