Choose work or children, first of all, look at your family situation. If one of you gives up your job to take care of the children, will it affect the quality of life and feel great pressure in life? If the impact is not great or within your control, then I suggest that there is a special person to accompany the children. You have to understand that the growth of children depends on the company of their parents, which is irreplaceable by anyone. What's more, neither of your parents is convenient to take care of the children. It's not too late for you to find a job when the children go to kindergarten. I'm afraid I can't find a job!

Your current job doesn't allow you two to quit your job and take care of the children. What should I do? After all, life still has to be lived, raising children costs a lot of money, and bread is still necessary. In this case, I suggest that you hire a nanny or Yue Yue to help you take care of your children at home and let your parents take care of them for you. If your parents are in poor health, don't worry about it. Let the nanny take care of people. Don't worry, there won't be too many problems. Just spend more time with the children after work. When the children go to school, you will be liberated, so that you can take care of both work and children, which is a more comprehensive way.

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In short, please remember to spend more time with your children no matter how busy you are at work. It is not only a good education for children's growth, but also the responsibility and obligation that parents should do. After many years, this unforgettable experience will definitely make you unforgettable all your life. I'm glad to answer your question. I hope my answer can help you.