The best relationship between two people is after they are passionately in love. Even if you are together and don't talk, you won't feel awkward, because you need to understand each other during the love period, and the conversation topics will naturally increase. When there is nothing to talk about, and when we are quiet together without feeling awkward, I think this is the time when we have entered a stable period of love. When we are in love, we always hope to be together no matter when and where we are. It seems that there is always endless passion. This is understandable.

But just like eating the most delicious food all the time will numb your taste buds, your dopamine secretion level cannot always be at its peak. Of course, the daily care of lovers is indispensable, but this It is by no means the entirety of your love. Just because the frequency of contact has decreased, you have denied everything about you. Then, for you, this relationship is just a colorful shell that has no surface and will be shattered as soon as you poke it. Everything should be based on willingness. It's not a problem if you don't talk about something, but it becomes a problem if you insist on finding something to talk about.

Couples are two independent individuals. When you first get together, you can share each other’s life experiences, ideas and perspectives. You see possibilities in each other that you never knew before. , but the progress of exploring this possibility will gradually slow down after you begin to understand each other better and better. You are actually just mortals. There will definitely be a lot of overlap in life experiences, and the unknown parts will continue to shrink. At this time Naturally, it is not as interesting as when we first got along. So we are often just in a stage that ordinary people go through, so there is no need to panic. Leaving the other party some time to chat with your gay friends, always forcing him to leave the team battle to chat with you, or even forming this bullshit habit does not prove that he loves you, but that the two of you are blindly invading and compromising.