Act as a middleman
Matchmaking is a very popular occupation in Jinjiang, regardless of gender, age and age. Of course, there will be more elderly people. If the matchmaker successfully matches a marriage, he will receive a red envelope of 10% of the sum of the bride price and dowry. Therefore, the matchmaker will make every effort to promote marriage, even saying how much dowry the woman gives the man and how much dowry the man gives the woman. A matchmaker can earn thousands or even tens of thousands of yuan in a marriage.
Bride and dowry
In the marriage custom of Jinjiang, besides the intervention of the matchmaker, there must be a high dowry. The bride price is given to the man when he is engaged, but it is returned in full when he gets married, while the woman has to pay a large dowry when she gets married. Take Chen Dai of Jinjiang as an example. The dowry of 300,000 yuan, 500,000 yuan and 6,543.8 yuan+0,000 yuan is a low-end, middle-end and high-end wedding. Jewelry is not measured in grams, but in pounds. Generally, a wedding costs 2-3 Jin of gold. Guests present gifts, the reserve price of 200 yuan, not capped. 500 yuan, 1000 yuan or even several thousand yuan is not uncommon.
dowry
The dowry given by the man to the woman is almost 15W. You can buy a dowry, but the woman must return more than twice the same amount to the man when she gets married. In other words, it's almost double the return. If the man gives you a dowry of 100W, you need to bring a dowry of 200W, which is normal. The specific quantity shall be agreed by both parties. But it's impossible for a woman. Our family doesn't accept dowry. According to Chen Dairen's custom, the dowry is generally one million yuan, and the poorest should also raise one hundred thousand yuan. In fact, many times, the bride price depends on everyone's conditions, and there is no need to compare with others. It is enough for the man to show enough sincerity, but it seems that Jinjiang is really a hero.