There are many traditional etiquette in China, but most modern people just follow it and don't know its meaning. So let's talk about it this time Pima Dai Xiao? Tradition.

Let's start with the photo of Queen Zhen Xuan.

This is the scene of Yong Zhengdi's death in the TV series "The Queen of the Palace". You can see that all the concubines in the painting are dressed in white and have white flowers to show their funeral.

Then what's this called? Pima Dai Xiao? What is it called in the countryside? Doing nothing? In ancient China, there was a heavy etiquette, namely? Funeral? .

Funeral from "Zhou Li? Spring palace? Dabo:? Mourn the worries of the country with fierce ceremonies and mourn the death with funerals. ?

Funeral refers to the etiquette and ritual system related to funeral.

Book of rites? Qu Lixia:? Stay in mourning, don't bury, miss mourning. Bury, read the ceremony. ?

Kong Shu:? Funeral, that is, drinking the next room in the morning and evening, Wang Shuo drinking the funeral palace, and holding a burial ceremony. ?

Funeral is a very complicated process. Here are one or two.

1. Please be responsible.

2. Set up an accounting firm

Looking for a bar

Carve a coffin

Looking for a cabin

Rental tables and chairs

7. Find a teahouse

8. find a white shop

9. Please play the drummer.

10. Ordering and binding colors

1 1. Find a tailor's shop.

12. Book a banquet

13. Buy piecemeal

14. Rent a white sedan chair and a carriage.

Just enumerating without expanding, the meaning of some nouns can be clear at a glance, while others are half-understood. Just look at these items and you will know how complicated and how many rules there are.

Since ancient times, the dead have always been the most important, so our country has Tomb-Sweeping Day.

Under the concept that the dead are respected and the dead are big, there must be some etiquette to match it. In today's society, these ceremonies have been reduced a lot. At present, the funeral in rural areas is still complicated. Without the big border of cities, the concept of rural areas is stuck.

There are naturally many rules about filial piety.

Mourning is white cloth or linen (China) worn in mourning, while in the west it is black.

Regarding the rules of mourning, there are different rules according to the intimacy with the deceased and the length of mourning. He lived in mourning for three years in ancient China.

1. Weaning clothes, three-year service and raw hemp are the most important of the five kinds of mourning clothes. They are made of extremely thick linen, and the hem is not caught.

2. Cui Zi wore cooked linen when there were staff and no staff, which was a second-class product for mourning and hemming.

Cui Zi will wear it in May and March.

4. Great achievements, September clothes, great achievements and below do not need staff.

5. Hong Xiao, the costume of May, is the fourth mourning.

6. De-hemp, worn in March, fifth in mourning.

The color of mourning is not white as modern people think.

White cloth: peers and foreign relatives of the deceased.

Flax: children and daughter-in-law

Announced: Sun's nephew.

Asabu: Great-grandson

Yellow cloth: great-great-grandson

Red cloth: direct great-grandson (because great-grandson is the grandson of five generations, red means laughing and mourning)

There are too many funeral ceremonies, which have been simple and simple until now. There are many contents in traditional etiquette in China. The faster and faster pace of life makes some old customs fade out of people's sight and become real history.