There is probably no more ordinary person than me in the world. I was born in an ordinary family, grew up in an ordinary environment, and was admitted to an ordinary university. I will definitely live an ordinary life in the future.
At the same time, there are many "other people's children" around me. Uncle Huang's son went to a key university, Aunt Li's daughter grew up in the United States, the neighbor's daughter is as beautiful as a fairy, and the uncle's son downstairs is a successful businessman. It seems that everyone is very powerful, but I am just an ordinary passerby.
Every time I have dinner with my uncles and aunts, they will always boast about how outstanding their children are, and then ask me where I went to college in a condescending tone, and then praise my college. , but praised the city where I went to college.
My dad just smiled and said nothing, but my mom couldn't help it. "Although my child is ordinary, I think she is excellent. She didn't give her more living expenses in college, so she lived frugally on her own." Qian has traveled across most of China. She loves reading and writing, and she has always been there. Her bedroom is as exquisite as a coffee shop, and her home is as beautiful as a flower shop. Wherever she goes, there are poems and poems. Far away. "
I never want to compare myself with others. Everyone has their own way of living. As long as you live your life according to your own wishes, you will be a successful person. I am very ordinary, and my life has never had any ups and downs. But even if my life is ordinary, I still live every moment for myself.
On days when there are many classes, I make myself a cup of fragrant Souchong black tea. For professional courses, I listened attentively. For useless classes, I just brought my favorite book and read it while drinking tea. Although such days are dull, I am still contented.
When the chores of life pile up and make me upset, I run away from school and hide in independent bookstores or coffee shops to read. I can’t calm down without reading for an hour. Life can't always be smooth sailing, there are some tedious things that need to be dealt with. Just like it's going to snow, I can't foresee it or stop it. I just need to quietly sweep the snow away.
When I was in school, I would take my friends all over the city. Go to coffee shops with different styles and taste a variety of food. Go for a walk on the beach or go to the top of a mountain to overlook the city. Go to the bar to listen to folk songs, and go to the library to read. Recommend practical goodies and niche books. Just living with me is so wonderful.
When I was at home, I carefully studied various recipes and learned nutritional combinations. Make exquisite breakfast for your parents and create various dark dishes as you like. Do all the housework, clean the house while listening to music, wash the dishes while listening to books. Carefully select fruits and vegetables for your family, carefully prepare daily meals for your family, and patiently teach your parents how to use WeChat. Although I don't have the capital to let my parents brag, I still make them live a safe and comfortable life.
I often think that although I am ordinary, I can make a complicated life simple. Although my life is dull, I make myself and others feel at ease and comfortable. This is what I like, and this is how I like to live.
I don’t want to give up my own happiness by looking up to the excellence of others. I don’t want to copy other people’s lives and live like a pirated copy of others.
Being able to eat and play is also a kind of success, and being ordinary is also a kind of happiness.