2. The man booked a table to invite relatives of both sides to dinner and gave the woman money to meet; Generally 500- 1000 yuan, but both parents give more.
3. The woman tells the man the number of her relatives and the number of tables he needs to book to guide him to know her relatives.
In Ningxia, the woman is usually a guest, and the man must be generous and enthusiastic to all her relatives that day.
Traditional marriage customs in Yinchuan;
1 proposal
The marriage custom of the Hui nationality is also to propose marriage. The man wants to ask the matchmaker to propose marriage at the woman's door. There are very few people who specialize in matchmakers now. Therefore, matchmakers are basically relatives of both men and women, and uncles are the first consideration. When a man asks a matchmaker to propose marriage, he must bring a four-color ceremony to introduce the basic situation of the man to the woman.
The woman will also let the matchmaker actually check the situation in the man's home, and the matchmakers of both sides will arrange to meet at the market or at the homes of relatives and friends. After that, the consent is a formal meeting, and the man should bring four-color gifts and meeting money. If the girl accepts the man's meeting money, it is equivalent to agreeing to the marriage.
2 dingcha
The man's family should prepare all kinds of scented tea or green tea, Longjing tea, etc. Muslims like to drink, plus some brown sugar, white sugar, longan meat, walnuts, raisins, red dates and so on. , and paste red paper as a wedding gift for relatives and friends. The man will also prepare some beautiful clothes for the woman, and the woman will also entertain relatives and friends.
3 flower arrangement
The man should give the bride price to the woman, and the gift of the bride price is determined according to the man's economic conditions. Of course, both men and women should agree together, otherwise the unhappy marriage of the woman may fail. The man should also buy some cosmetics, daily necessities, clothes or fabrics for the four seasons, watches, bicycles, gold and silver jewelry, a sheep, 100 kg of rice and some sugar tea.