First, a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
If you get along well with your mother-in-law, you can choose to go home and see her old man. Because some mothers-in-law treat their daughter-in-law as their daughter. At this time, my mother-in-law likes to go home for the New Year. I certainly hope that my daughter-in-law, who works outside, will go home to see her and spend time with her near the Spring Festival. At this time, you can buy something your mother-in-law likes as a gift and buy some new clothes to take home. When you get home, your mother-in-law may cook for you, or miss your grandchildren very much and will help you take care of your children. You will enjoy being spoiled by your mother.
Second, the relationship with mother-in-law is not harmonious.
If you have a bad relationship with your mother-in-law, you'd better not go home one month in advance, because you don't know what will happen next, and the Spring Festival may be unpleasant. For example, your mother-in-law doesn't like you at all and always finds fault with you. Or you don't like your mother-in-law, and you always feel that she doesn't care about hygiene and so on. In this case, you will have a lot of bad feelings when you go home, and you will be in a bad mood and make everyone unhappy. Therefore, there is no need to go home one month in advance in this situation. Just go home with your husband for a New Year's Eve dinner in the Spring Festival at most, otherwise it will affect the harmony between husband and wife.
Third, if the mother-in-law is in the countryside,
If you are used to the life in the city, don't go to the countryside to celebrate the New Year with your mother-in-law one month in advance, because you will not be used to all kinds of things in the countryside. At this time, if you still take care of the children, you will be very annoyed. Everything will be inconvenient, for example, you may not like being dirty when eating.
Of course, every question depends on you. Bian Xiao can only give you a reference answer. The final decision is in your hands. You should pay attention to whether you can go back. Welcome comments and messages.