Usually we in China say whose family is well-off, that is to say, this family is relatively strong and rich, even for generations. It can be called a well-off society. In fact, if the family conditions are good, it is very beneficial for a person's starting point. You are higher than ordinary people at the starting line, so you should cherish the opportunity.
People with well-off families generally get rich through hard work and business. After years of accumulation, they have accumulated a lot of wealth, and now they continue to work to earn money, so that their money can not be spent, resulting in a good family. Everyone in the family is creating wealth for the family. This is the meaning of a well-off family.
This family keeps the habit of modesty.
1, big expenses are negotiable.
What big expenses need to be discussed between family members, even if they spend their own money, they will not know until they have spent it. Discuss with your family, and your family will have a sense of common ownership, and then you can better maintain it.
Don't care about small expenses
Some people think that they have a good life, and a few dollars should be counted clearly, but they don't know that a few dollars will make their families chilling. In a Korean drama, the husband will check his wife's money for dinner every night, ask a few questions when buying expensive shrimp, and then accuse his wife of not living. Although saving from a small place can accumulate into a big place, such disputes will make the family feel chilling and give birth to bad blood. Instead, you will forget the little things and lose the big things.
3. Give money to children without restraint.
No matter how much you love your children, don't give them money without restraint. Whether it is a big child or a child, when you give them money without restraint, children will easily become dependent and their wings that have never flown independently will shrink.
So, don't give children too much money. When appropriate, let children think independently, or learn to save money, or learn to make money.
4. Don't let the elderly spend money
Giving money is a way to honor the elderly now. But it should be noted here that there is no problem in giving money, but the elderly must know how to spend money. After all, the development is too fast now, and there are too many scams, each with its own tricks. Many young people can't tell the difference, let alone the elderly.
5. Make money without bragging
It doesn't matter if you don't brag when you make money. For family members, you can even celebrate a little, but for outsiders, it goes without saying.
Others boasted about the money they earned, which attracted a group of borrowers and put themselves in a dilemma. This is not conducive to the accumulation of family wealth.