There are tens of millions of boys in China now, and they can't find a partner all their lives. Therefore, the only way to get rid of being single and find a girlfriend is to be excellent. Chasing a girlfriend should also pay attention to the survival of the fittest. You must be qualified to chase first. The most important thing is dressing up. You can't be careless for the first time, and you can't pay attention to your image. Although you don't need a certain brand name, you should at least be handsome and energetic, and your first impression should not be too bad.

Try to be generous and decent when you meet girls. For example, when you meet for the first time, if you need to eat during the date, you must choose an elegant and atmospheric place to eat, and never go to street stalls or three unmarked places to eat. This is not a question of money, but a question of respecting the woman. When ordering food, try to understand the woman's hobbies and order her favorite recipes. In the process of eating, you must be modest and act like a man. Pay the bill after dinner, remember to take the initiative and not be too stingy.

Keep dating if you hit it off, don't chase it too hard. Let the woman feel that you can't seem to find a girlfriend except her, which leads to self-expansion. You should do it step by step, and you can't make the other person have an illusion with one punch.

Try to be humble when you get along with the woman, but you can't give in indefinitely. But to be passive. After having feelings, try to overcome your own shortcomings, such as being angry, having a bad temper, not striving for progress, loving to play, or being narrow-minded, and opposing the normal communication between your girlfriend and other opposite sex and colleagues.

You should have your own opinions, or you will listen to your family and decide things by yourself, so don't ask for other people's opinions. In a word, seriously talking about a love is a basic preparation for a happy life in the future.