Do you care that your significant other can’t cook? For people nowadays, whether they can cook or not is not that important anymore. In fact, what matters is the attitude. If your significant other can't cook, does it mean that the responsibility of cooking will be taken away from you in the future? It falls on you, so you can’t just order takeout to solve everything. What should you do if you don’t know how to cook? If you don't care about the other person, will the other person care about you? There won't be any concept of discrimination just because men and women are different.

So whether you can cook is just a matter of attitude. What really matters is not whether you can cook or not. If you don’t know how to cook, you can learn to cook. As for whether it tastes good or not, that’s another matter. Having said that, some businesses have seen business opportunities, such as cooking machines. It doesn’t matter if you don’t know how to cook. You just need to put the food in, and a delicious dish will be cooked after a while, so not being able to cook is not an obstacle at all. If you still use the excuse that you don’t know how to cook, it’s a sign of inner reluctance.

In other words, if you don’t want to be with someone, even if you don’t use the reason that the other person can’t cook, you will find reasons of this and that. In short, you have the intention of despising the other person. This actually has nothing to do with being able to cook or not being able to cook.

When you really like someone, do you still care about whether they can cook? Is it because you are choosing a chef? It doesn’t matter if you don’t know how to cook, you can definitely cook for him (her) if you like him (her). Friends who say they care about not being able to cook can think about whether they are just giving themselves reasons to refuse. No one is born with this or that skill. It is all the result of learning slowly the day after tomorrow. The same goes for cooking. Everyone learns how to cook and becomes good at it. It also changes from not being delicious to being delicious. Food, so don’t use your inability to cook as an excuse.

From the matter of cooking, it can be completely extended. When you really care about your partner not being able to do that, you have to think carefully about whether it is because of resistance in your heart. Will you dislike the other person? What is the root of the resistance? Only when you find this root can you better solve the problem between two people, not just because you dislike the other person and don't know how to do that. To put it another way, if you like the other person, maybe the other person doesn't know this or that, but it becomes an advantage, because the other person doesn't know it and you happen to know it, so you can teach the other person. In the process of teaching, the two of you will learn from each other. If we can communicate more, we can see the problem from a different perspective and the result will be different.

It’s a good thing if your partner can’t do something. Even if you can’t do it, it’s okay. It just gives two people the opportunity to make up for each other and learn from each other. If you can see this , it means that you don’t just look at the problem in its inherent state, but look at it from a developmental perspective. When two people are together, they need to look at the problem from a developmental perspective and not just stay on a certain issue in front of them. .

Now that you understand this, if I were to ask you again, would you care that your significant other couldn't cook? Would your answer change from before?