Today's kindergartens can be said to be everywhere, all kinds, public, private, bilingual and so on. Let parents not know how to choose.
Sometimes, parents often attach importance to the kindergarten environment, teachers' teaching strength and food standards, but often ignore a very important factor: teachers' conduct.
After all, teachers and children have been together for a long time, and children's behavior will mostly imitate teachers.
If you have baba, you can only hug but not pull. Why is the baby so patient?
Doudou is three years old this year. Because there is no old man to help him pick him up, Doudou's mother sent him to a kindergarten near home. Fortunately, Doudou likes going to kindergarten very much, which makes Doudou's mother feel much better.
However, after two weeks in kindergarten, Doudou's mother found a phenomenon: on the way home from school every day, Doudou always pooped and couldn't help pulling his pants several times.
Before going to kindergarten, Doudou could take care of himself and wouldn't pull his pants. What's going on recently?
Later, Doudou's mother learned from her children by playing games. It turned out that the kindergarten teacher wouldn't let the children poop at school and told them to go home to poop, so Doudou had to hold them all the time.
If you meet such a teacher, it will not only hurt parents, but also greatly affect children's psychology and growth.
Factors that parents should consider when choosing a kindergarten.
1. distance
Being close to home is really important. If you are an office worker, your child's kindergarten is particularly far away, which is definitely a disaster for you. Even if the elderly help to pick up and drop off, the elderly and children will get up every morning, and the children and the elderly will be very tired after three years. It is recommended to choose a better kindergarten within two kilometers.
2. Hygiene
The baby who goes to kindergarten has three meals a day in kindergarten, and whether the food mix is reasonable will directly affect the growth and development of the child.
Whether breakfast is single and repeated, whether pasta and rice are interspersed frequently, the combination of meat and vegetables for each meal, and so on. Don't think that every meal is meat, it means that the food is good. At present, many vegetables and fruits in kindergartens are delivered by big brands, and the quality can still be guaranteed. It depends on the children's daily recipes, and more importantly, it depends on the catering environment.
3. Teachers
When children go to kindergarten, the teacher is the one who contacts them the most every day. The teacher's words and deeds and the way to deal with problems have a great influence on children.
Nowadays, incidents of child abuse are frequent, and a bad teacher's harm to children is very serious.
Observing whether the teacher treats the child attentively and whether the conduct is excellent can be understood from the details. In addition to being patient and gentle with children, it is more about understanding children. Whether the teacher can know the child's needs through one action and one look. Even if the teacher is not married and has no children of his own, he has been engaged in early childhood education for many years and has rich experience in bringing up a baby mother, so it is very accurate to look at the conduct in detail.
4. Educational concept
In kindergarten, children are curious about the outside world. Teachers and parents need enough patience to care for their precious curiosity, and don't let the rules and regulations of the adult world suppress their exploration of the world.
If the kindergarten also pays special attention to the cultivation of children's interests, then choose it. It must be right.
What should parents do if they want their children to adapt to kindergarten faster?
◆ Parents should respect teachers.
The teacher is not your personal nanny, so don't ask too much of the teacher, especially some special requirements.
Teacher Yin Jianli once said: "Kindergarten is not an educational place in essence. It is a child care center to help children and ensure their health and safety. "
Don't entrust too many educational tasks to kindergartens. Of course, teachers can't treat children differently according to family economic conditions.
Cooperate with teachers' various activities.
Sometimes parents think that some parent-child activities and some manual work in kindergarten are meaningless and waste time. But if you are not a professional, don't easily question the professionalism of kindergartens and teachers. Please actively cooperate.
Don't think that parents will be liberated by sending their children to kindergarten, so they can ignore everything. In fact, in children's hearts, no one can take the place of mom and dad.
If the kindergarten organizes activities or spring outing, parents must fully cooperate and accompany their children, which is of great significance to the children.
Imagine how sad the child would be if all the other children were accompanied by their parents and only your child was not.