When attending the funeral, as a junior, in addition to a heavy heart, there are all kinds of discomfort at the funeral.
Grand funerals usually last seven to ten days.
Buried too fast, gossip said that the child was unfilial and sloppy, or that the child was depressed, so the funeral gradually became a local comparison.
I have personally experienced several funerals of relatives and witnessed the whole process of organizing funerals.
The funeral was monotonous and lengthy, and the host family made every effort to make the mourners feel honored and honored.
All kinds of funerals are extravagant.
A formal memorial service is usually three days, and guests are invited to every meal for these three days.
The chef team entered the venue early, and the menu of the dinner was carefully customized.
Dozens of banquets, extremely extravagant. Birds, animals, seafood and abalone are all made of the best and freshest ingredients, which are delivered from the provincial capital in the early morning to ensure that they can be served on the same day.
Fruit bowls and drinks come in several colors, including cigarettes, peanuts and melons, more than three kinds of fruits, as well as drinks, beer, white wine and even red wine.
When the guests leave the table, a large part of the dishes on the table are still left and wasted.
Originally to express grief, it turned into a ceremony to worship the five temples.
Firecrackers are essential for funerals. When grandma died ten years ago, she used a whole room full of fireworks.
What's more, later relatives spent tens of thousands of dollars on fireworks alone.
Every guest will set off a firecracker at the door, and every memorial ceremony will focus on setting off a batch of firecrackers, especially on the night of memorial ceremony and funeral. Firecrackers are almost heard from beginning to end.
Amid firecrackers and bright fireworks, it is incredible to feel a kind of celebration vaguely.
Some mourners get together to play mahjong, poker and gambling games.
One table is not enough. Let's have another table.
The host family generally does not prohibit this situation, but also provides places, cards and snacks.
The picture becomes a funeral on one side and a small bet on the other; Playing cards while playing a coffin; Sadness and joy are mixed.
The funeral next to it seems insignificant, laughing and talking about winning or losing.
I don't know when there will be a mobile karaoke bar and karaoke at the funeral.
In addition to playing funeral music, let interested people speak and sing golden songs for ten years.
Singing is varied, but it has little to do with missing relatives.
A few days after grandpa died, my cousin said that my mother sang several times in the mobile karaoke bar.
I really don't know what kind of emotion is expressed, or is it an emotional catharsis?
Originally just a mourning for the deceased relatives, it turned into a song concert for several days in a row.
Is that ironic?
Everyone comes into this world with a ceremony to welcome him.
When everyone leaves this world, there is also a ceremony to see him off.
Farewell ceremonies, from death to burial, require a wake and only sleep for two or three hours a day for several days.
Every day, I pay homage to the master of ceremonies, take music lessons, read eulogies that I don't understand, and kneel down with all future generations.
The children stayed up all night with dark faces and red eyes.
If you are over 50 years old, you will suffer great mental and physical losses.
As a junior, I always worry about whether my elders can resist this ceremony.
At this time, I will think, what is the significance?
Why not shed tears quietly? Such a ceremony can make us miss our loved ones better.
This ceremony is costly and involves a wide range. Relatives put all their energy into the funeral, how much leisure can be sad?
The dead are like this, but the living are greatly hurt by it, which can't make people feel at ease.
I like "If You Are the One 2" li xiangshan's farewell party, simple ceremony.