Holding an object is to grasp the other person's thoughts, emotions and behaviors in order to achieve their own goals or change the other person's thoughts and behaviors. This skill is very important in interpersonal communication, which can help us to communicate with others, solve problems and handle affairs better.

Holding an object is not a bad behavior, as long as it is used properly, it can make interpersonal relationships more harmonious. For example, in business negotiations, you can realize your best interests by grasping each other's needs and bottom line; In family life, understanding the emotional and psychological state of family members can better coordinate family relations.

However, if it is not used properly, it may also bring some negative effects. For example, disrespect for the independent meaning of others causes troubles and contradictions in interpersonal relationships; Or overusing this skill will make your life complicated and even affect your mental health. Therefore, when grasping the object, we should establish correct values and ethics to avoid adverse consequences.