Flowers will reopen one day and people will no longer be young. For women, the face of youth will be irreparable after passing away, and then it will lose the attraction that makes men dream. Because lecherous men often like the new and hate the old, even the dross wife will be mercilessly abandoned because of her old age. Sima Yi's aversion to Zhang Chunhua in his later years is the best example.
Sima Yi and Zhang Chunhua
In 20 1 year, 22-year-old Sima Yi was selected by the county king. Cao Cao, then a general, heard that Sima Yi was very talented, so he sent someone to call him into the DPRK. Sima Yi thought that the Han Dynasty was unlucky, so she lied that she had wind arthralgia and refused his call-up.
In 208 AD, Cao Cao became prime minister. He once again extended an olive branch to Sima Yi, and by the way, he used intimidation. Sima Yi was afraid and agreed to work for him. Later, Sima Yi began to get along with Prince Xelloss. Because of Sima Yi's outstanding talent, he knew both sides well, and not only was he promoted quickly, but he also won the trust of Cao Cao and Cao Pi.
During this period, Sima Yi married his first wife, Zhang Chunhua, and gave birth to three men and one woman. Among them, Si Mazhao and Sima Shi successively took charge of Wei regime.
When Zhang Chunhua was young, he was not only beautiful, but also had extraordinary wisdom and good conduct, so the relationship between husband and wife with Sima Yi in his early years was fairly harmonious. But with the passage of time, Sima Yi's official position became bigger and bigger, and he married three concubines, Mrs. Fu, Mrs. Zhang and Mrs. Bai, but his attitude towards Zhang Chunhua became colder and colder, so that it was difficult for Zhang Chunhua to meet him on weekdays.
Sima Yi and Zhang Chunhua
Then one day, Sima Yi was ill in bed, and Zhang Chunhua put aside his bad feelings and went to see him. Results Sima Yi ungrateful, but said to Zhang Chunhua. Old things are disgusting, why bother! ? The general meaning is to accuse Zhang Chunhua of being so ugly and doing nothing!
Hearing this, Zhang Chunhua suddenly became unhappy. She left in shame and began to express her dissatisfaction through a hunger strike. Seeing their mother's hunger strike, Si Mazhao, Sima Shi and other children were very distressed and began to follow their mother's hunger strike.
This frightened Sima Yi, who immediately apologized to Zhang Chunhua and avoided a worse situation. But afterwards Sima Yi said to others:? I'm worried that the old things lack pity! ? In his eyes, it doesn't matter whether Zhang Chunhua dies or not, but it is too painful to starve his good son. For this matter, "Thirty-one Biography of the Book of Jin" records:
Since then, Mrs. Bai has been in favor, and it is rare to see her in the future. The emperor tried to get sick and then went to save the disease. The emperor said:? Old things are disgusting, why bother! ? If you are ashamed and don't eat, you commit suicide. Philosophers don't eat. The emperor was surprised and thanked, and then stopped. The emperor abdicated and asked people:? I'm worried about the scarcity of old things!
This shows that Sima Yi's dislike of Zhang Chunhua has reached a very strong level at this time, and he doesn't even care about the life of the other party. Why?
Sima Yi and Bai Lingyun
I think there are two main reasons for this:
First, Zhang Chunhua's old pearl yellow loses its appeal.
There is a saying that 18-year-old men like 18-year-old girls, and 80-year-old men also like 18-year-old girls. Men always like young and beautiful women, but some people can only hide this desire because of their lack of ability.
But Sima Yi is different. Sima Yi was brilliant and won the trust and reuse of Cao Cao. In the days when I worked in Cao Shi Group, I was promoted step by step, let alone have it? Under one person and above ten thousand people? Status, but at least he is also a very important counselor.
With a certain amount of power, Sima Yi's inner desire kept expanding, and she began to look for young and beautiful women to meet her needs, so she had Mrs. Fu, Mrs. Zhang and Mrs. Bai.
As for Zhang Chunhua, whose beauty is getting older, Sima Yi hates being with her more and more. After all, together for so many years, Sima Yi has long lost the original freshness. Compared with Lao Huang's wife, he is more willing to enjoy the beautiful visual experience brought by young concubines.
Sima Yi and Zhang Chunhua
Second, Zhang Chunhua has a distinct personality and is difficult to control.
Zhang Chunhua was born in a noble family. Her father is Zhang Wang, the county magistrate of Cao Wei, and her mother is the grandparents of celebrities. The whole family has a certain prestige in Hanoi. Born in such a family, Zhang Chunhua not only received a good education, but also cultivated a strong and resolute character.
The marriage between Sima Yi and Zhang Chunhua is a suitable couple. After marriage, Zhang Chunhua didn't just do laundry, cook and have children like ordinary women. Her wisdom has helped Sima Yi a lot.
When Cao Cao first recruited Sima Yi, Sima Yi could not get out of bed because of wind arthralgia. One day during the Wanli period of Qing Dynasty, Sima Yi ordered people to hang books in the yard. As a result, there was a sudden strong wind. Seeing that reading was getting wet, Sima Yi felt distressed and ran to collect the book. At the moment, he forgot who he was. Suffering from foot disease? State, this scene happened to be seen by a handmaid.
When Zhang Chunhua learned about this, he was worried that Sima Yi's fake secret would lead to disaster, so he killed his handmaid himself and then cooked for himself, so as not to let anyone contact Sima Yi. In this regard, the Book of Jin Thirty-one Biography No.1 Scholar records:
At the beginning of Emperor Xuan Di's farewell to Wu Wei, he was entrusted with wind arthralgia, and suddenly tasted books. In case of heavy rain, he unconsciously began to collect them. Only one maid in the family saw it, and then she was afraid that it would lead to disaster, so she killed it with her hand and held it herself. The emperor's reason is the most important.
At that time, Sima Yi was still underdeveloped. In his eyes, he is lucky to have a wife like Zhang Chunhua. Later, Sima Yi's career was flourishing and promoted step by step. At this time, Zhang Chunhua's wisdom became a thorn in his side and a thorn in his flesh, which made him terrified.
At the same time, Zhang Chunhua has a distinct personality and is ruthless. He always has his own ideas, which is really difficult to control. When Sima Yi scolded her for her past events, Zhang Chunhua did not endure it silently, but chose to ask several children to go on a hunger strike together, and finally forced Sima Yi to compromise and apologize.
In his later years, Sima Yi wanted his other half to be an easy-to-control fool, not an independent and intelligent person like Zhang Chunhua, so he hated Zhang Chunhua extremely.
Sima Yi and Zhang Chunhua
To sum up, when Sima Yi was old, Zhang Chunhua was old and lost her appeal, while Zhang Chunhua had a distinctive personality and was difficult to control, so Sima Yi became more and more disgusted and rejected her.
Sima yi proved one thing for us with her own personal experience: men have the right to be rich and will become bad! Readers, what do you say?