Personally, I think love should come first. Without love, where can there be a wedding reception? Marriage should be an inevitable choice after a certain stage of love. In ancient times, good women were forbidden to leave their home and enter their second home. Marriage was entirely decided by the words of parents and matchmakers. As for what the other person looks like and what his personality is, I just heard it from the media population. If he wants to see it with his own eyes, he must wait until his wedding night. Then this kind of marriage is to hold a wedding reception first, and then slowly cultivate love. But now, after all, it is not ancient, and there is no love. Even if you get married, there will be no love after marriage.

Although most people now agree that love comes first, then there will be a wedding reception, but sometimes, love will also lose to the wedding reception. A colleague of mine, whose hometown is in the countryside, is the only college student in the village, which is also the pride of the village. Later, he made a girlfriend, and his parents are both high-level intellectuals, who are quite open-minded, have no opinion about portal, and have no intention of belittling this boy. So, after talking for more than two years, they began to consider getting married. Parents of both sides will inevitably meet first to discuss how to arrange the wedding reception, how many tables to invite, how to collect the gift money and so on. Unexpectedly, the talks broke down.

The boy's parents only adhere to one principle: invite everyone in the village to the wedding banquet and let the villagers open their eyes by the way. The reason is that boys are the most promising. When they were young, they got help from their uncles and grandfathers in the village. Now is the time to repay him. About 300 people can come except those who are too old and too young to go out. When the woman's parents thought about it, it was 30 tables. It's not a big problem. They agreed. Who knows that the man's parents added another one, saying that the gift money must be collected by the man's parents, because this is a rural custom!

So, the woman's parents carefully asked: How much dowry are you going to give? As a result, the man's parents were stunned and said? Hey, you're all rich. Unlike us farmers, we don't have to go through the formalities of bride price. In addition, in front of the villagers, you should also say that our Yazi bought the house, so that Yazi can have face. ? Until that moment, the woman's parents, who had never intervened in their relationship, suddenly realized that such a husband's family could not have it, and they were completely greedy and vain. Their son is a treasure, and other people's daughters deserve it! Finally, the woman's parents were very angry and forced them to break up.