It's the experience of helping my sister-in-law deal with my mother. Before my brother had no date, my mother was very anxious. No matter whether the person introduced was Bai Fumei or crooked melon and jujube, she forced my brother to chase after him. After all, the conditions at home are very general, and my mother is afraid that my brother will become a leftover man. Later, my brother talked about one himself and got married. Later, my mother and my sister-in-law were not happy, and they began to have great prejudice against my sister-in-law, mainly as follows:
My sister-in-law is one year older than my brother, saying that if the family conditions were not poor, it would be her turn to marry my brother. My mother: it's none of your business. I'm two days older than your son-in-law. Why don't you say so? My sister-in-law spends a lot of money, but it's not a big spender. My sister-in-law is not greedy for food and clothes.
But shopping will choose better quality, and the price will naturally be more expensive. But in my mother's eyes, my sister-in-law is a loser and doesn't care about money! I love my mother: come on, your daughter-in-law earns her own money, and you don't care how she spends it! Besides, it's good that she doesn't play mahjong! If my brother marries a man who doesn't earn money and lies at the poker table all day, you still have to suffer!
My sister-in-law's education is not high enough. She got married without a dowry, and she was an older woman when she got married ... My brother really lost a lot by marrying my sister-in-law! I'm really tired of hearing this, and I started directly: before I got married, you were worried that your son couldn't get a wife, and finally he found one himself, which you don't think is worthy! What is not worthy?
People have an iron rice bowl, with seven or eight thousand yuan a month. When they get old, they have a pension, which is very good in this city. There was no dowry when I got married, but when I got married, my brother was in debt. Before I got married, my sister-in-law paid my brother 1 thousand! I didn't buy three gold when I got married. My sister-in-law added 2, yuan for the bride price. When it comes to the bride's family, what else do you want?
My sister-in-law loves cleanliness too much, and she is very particular about her food. She doesn't have any salt, and she can't hide any traces of scorching. My mother has the biggest opinion about this, and to be honest, I think it's exaggerated, but everyone has different living habits. Just because she is married to my family, she can't force others to change their living habits! So I advised my mother for a long time in this respect! Why would I be partial to my sister-in-law? Normal men tend to be partial to their wives, and they are the ones who live their whole lives. Even if my sister-in-law really does something wrong, her husband says, I don't understand how you got such a big face as a sister-in-law. < P > Because I am also the daughter-in-law of another family, I have been married for four years, and I never feel that my husband-in-law treats me as a family. Every time I am in his family, I feel a sense of loneliness and helplessness! My mother-in-law also expressed her dissatisfaction with me several times. In the eyes of all mothers, their sons are the best. Other daughters make a fortune when they marry their sons, but their sons lose a lot!