After I returned to the village, I deeply felt that I was too simple and knew nothing about the real world. The feeling of a woman being with her husband after an affair depends entirely on her husband's attitude. This is a human game in itself, and there is no complicated emotion and logic at all.
First of all, it all started when I returned to the village.
Around the National Day, I went back to my hometown in Gansu. Now the houses in the countryside are really beautiful, but the internal facilities are really not good. Moving to the new countryside will not delay them from building kang, chatting, eating and sleeping in their own houses. In winter, the igloo is the only place far away from the kang.
That afternoon, when I was sleepy on the quilt pile, three or four village women came in. Out of social fear, I pretended to be asleep, so I listened to the village secret all afternoon and got a glimpse of this colorful new world.
Second, the husband is responsible for farming and cooking, and the wife is responsible for the beautiful game world. Me, giao, what a shame!
First name the woman Xiao Fang and the man Iron Egg.
Xiao Fang is as beautiful as a flower, known as the village party secretary-Zhihua, which is so beautiful. Women squint, men look straight. When Xiao Fang's family just built a new house, the men in the nearby village, who were rich and strong, really made great efforts and rode motorcycles to help.
The new house was built, and the good people in the nearby village helped buy furniture. Because there were many people, it was impossible to inform them in place, and even led to the purchase of two sets of sofas.
Iron egg works at home every day to cook and serve his daughter-in-law, who dresses beautifully every day. Today, she will accompany Wang Ge to the city, tomorrow, she will accompany Li Ge to drink, and the next day, she will travel again.
Sometimes, unfortunately, when Wang Ge and Li Ge go home at the same time, Iron Egg will cook some dishes, have some wine with his brothers and adjust the awkward atmosphere.
You thought it was over. Iron eggs can't feel green. He thinks his daughter-in-law is capable, caring for her family and good-looking, but she is a little playful. It will be fine in two years!
Me, Gio!
Well, as far as you are concerned, Xiao Fang cheated. Isn't she divorced, but will she feel guilty? Will she feel sorry for the iron egg?
She won't! She can even confidently instruct Iron Egg to work. Iron egg is not easy to serve. She even pointed to iron egg's nose and scolded his ancestors for eight generations.
Let's imagine that Xiao Fang cuckolded Iron Egg for the first time and Iron Egg wanted to divorce her. She didn't leave after pleading. Will she dare to cheat again? In order to maintain her marriage, she will definitely compensate the iron egg.
Third, I cry when the enemy advances, laugh when the enemy retreats, and cry when the enemy retreats ... This is the true state of women who cheat in marriage.
There is a view, I don't know if you have heard of it, and it probably means something like this:
A man's infidelity is a physical infidelity, but he still loves his wife in his heart. A woman's affair is over, and they are physically and mentally out. I think this view must have been invented by men. While trying to whitewash yourself, you should also be black.
Personally, there is no difference between men and women cheating. The only difference is that society is more tolerant of men's infidelity. Because men face more temptations, the probability of cheating is higher than that of women.
I've heard more outrageous views. A man told me that he didn't think whoring was cheating. I was surprised and asked him: If your wife goes to the White Horse Club to sleep with Xiao Xianrou, isn't that cheating?
He hesitated for a moment and said, of course, it was an affair.
Therefore, there is no difference between men and women in essence, but there is a huge difference between men and women who cheat.
When the man cheated, relatives and friends advised her not to divorce. How can a man not make mistakes? Just change it later. He still cares about his family. When the woman cheated, relatives and friends were embarrassed to persuade the man not to divorce. After all, for the man, breaking money is a matter of dignity.
Therefore, the divorce rate of women after cheating is much higher than that of men after cheating.
If the woman has an affair and the man does not divorce, the woman will decide her face according to the man's attitude. If the man clings, she will get along with him in Qin Ran and gradually feel that she is not wrong. If the time is longer, she will even think that her affair is the fault of the other party.
If the man is not divorced after the woman's infidelity, but the man is rich and entitled to social status and fists (four can be one), the woman will try her best to compensate the man cautiously for the purpose of making herself better off or maintaining her marriage.
The above two points also apply to men cheating. Men and women who cheat are selfish and full of desires in essence, but if the moral standards are normal, they will not cheat. If they cheat, don't talk about morality. If there is nothing at all, it will be difficult for them to rub, that is, Lian Bi.