It depends on what you're going back to do. If there is an emergency, it can be arranged according to the time. I won't go if I have time. If it's not an emergency, you might as well go back to your hometown to see your mother-in-law, so it's necessary to go to your husband's house, because it's your own home and for your children. It is unreasonable to go back to your hometown instead of your own. So, according to the actual situation, master it yourself.