1. Your brother's marriage is a big deal. Xinyi (a pseudonym) is the eldest sister of the family. She has been very sensible since she was a child. Seeing her parents' preference for her younger brother, she never said anything, only found a place where no one was there to secretly wipe her tears.
With your parents, you can love whatever you like, as long as it is good, as long as it is not good, and it is free. However, my brother's every move affects his parents' hearts. There are rewards for doing well in the exam and rewards for not doing well in the exam. In short, whether it is good or not, it will be focused on and loved.
Later, Xinyi went to college in other places to earn tuition and living expenses. She hasn't been home for four years. Her parents didn't worry about not asking, but asked Xinyi to buy a gift for her brother. Later, Xinyi worked, and her mother told her to work hard and raise her brother if she could. Xinyi will take out part of her salary every month. Later, when my brother got married, Xinyi also gave her 50,000 yuan.
However, during this period, Xinyi was hospitalized and needed an immediate family member to sign the operation. She called her mother, but her mother said that her brother's marriage was a big deal, so she should mention him first and let her live first. She knew that her sister-in-law was pregnant half a month before her brother's wedding, and her mother never left her daughter-in-law at home and refused to come and take care of her sick self. Xinyi can't see the hope of signing the operation herself. If she wakes up, she will be born again. She'll be fine. She won't give her family any money. She will love herself and make herself strong.
Second, sensible children, no one hurts, live the most pitiful. Xinyi was sensible since she was a child, did not fight for love with her younger brother, and stood on her own feet, but what did she get? Parents ignore her, parents look for her, and younger brother has always been the focus of the family.
Even if Xinyi is ill in hospital and needs to do something urgent, parents resolutely choose to stand on their son's side and accompany his son to wait on his daughter-in-law, regardless of her life or death.
As the saying goes, crying children have candy to eat, but sensible children are not hurt and live the most miserable life. Sensible children will please their parents everywhere, send money to their parents, study hard to get good grades, earn a lot of money at work and so on. In order to attract parents' attention, let them pay more attention to themselves, recognize themselves and love themselves.
A sensible child suppresses his true self and lives like others.
Third, the palm of your hand is full of meat. Please be kind to her and watch Ode to Joy, and feel bad about fan Mei Sheng; Looking at "Everything is OK", I am distressed by Su Mingyu; Watching "The Only Son", I feel sorry for Lin and Leo. There are too many Fan Meisheng and Su Mingyu in life. They are both parents' daughters, but they are treated unfairly.
As parents, children should not be treated differently because of their gender and differences. Parents should give their children unconditional love. Whether it is a daughter instead of a son, whether she studies well, whether she earns more or less, and so on. , can't affect his parents love him.
Finally: We can't change our family background, we can only change ourselves. If they don't love themselves, they should love themselves, live in the way they like, and pursue their dreams and lives.