When men get married, so do women. In other words, when a man reaches a certain age, he will get married and have children, while when a woman reaches a certain age, she will find someone to marry. Then at the right time, we should start planning the wedding. In the process of preparation, everyone must understand the local customs and habits, and never commit taboos. So as a Yangzhou native, how much do you know about Yangzhou's marriage customs? Let's follow the footsteps of this column and have a look.

Warm family wine

In Yangzhou, "warm house wine" must be drunk, and you must have a good time. Different from other places, Yangzhou people's warm house wine is usually in hotels, where families of both men and women celebrate. Before the banquet, the yellow jars with red happy characters should be put in the room, and the bride and groom should propose a toast.

Mother's meat

In ancient times, daughters often married far away, and without their parents' company, they might not see each other for a long time. A piece of meat is not only a grief for the groom, but also a guarantee. The wedding day is also the day of bride price. The motorcade is divided into two groups. The first group consists of the elders of the groom's family. They are responsible for delivering the packaged gift boxes, cigarettes, wine, sugar, tea and firecrackers to the woman's home, and placing the items evenly on a table in the Eight Immortals. The groom's motorcade arrived later and gave his mother-in-law a piece of pork, which was called "keeping the mother's meat".

Red date tea

After leaving the mother's meat, the woman's uncle will count the gift money instead of her in-laws, put it back in the gift box after reading it, and offer sweet jujube tea to satisfy the groom's hunger. Now someone has improved this link, replacing jujube tea with cakes and snickers. Although westernized, it also condenses the mother-in-law's love for her children.

Wedding car route

No matter how you get from the woman's house to the hotel, you have to go around Wenchang Building. In the traditional wedding custom in Yangzhou, doing so can bless your children and grandchildren to succeed in high school!

Yangzhou bride price

There are three kinds of bride price in Yangzhou. The first groom is a native of Yangzhou, usually around 666 to 30 thousand. The second groom is a foreigner and doesn't want to settle in Yangzhou, so there will be more bride price, especially the farther he marries, the higher the bride price. The third groom doesn't want dowry items. If the man doesn't want these items, the bride price will be less. This is usually discussed with the woman's family.