Full-time mothers have no salary, but they have a heavy workload. They have to take care of their children and are responsible for three meals a day.

Usually, there are some men who are ungrateful and do not take full-time mothers seriously at all, but facts have proved that it is really not possible for mothers to "stop working" at critical moments!

The stay-at-home mom was sick and bedridden for 3 days. The "New Year's Eve dinner" at home consisted of pickles and porridge. Dad: Get better soon

Other people's New Year's Eve dinner is "fish and meat" "But at Xiao Li's New Year's Eve dinner, there were pickles and gruel on the table.

It’s not that Xiao Li’s family has no money to celebrate the New Year, nor is it that Xiao Li is lazy and doesn’t cook, it’s just that she is sick. Fortunately, on New Year's Eve, she felt tired and ached and had to lie down to rest.

As a result, once the stay-at-home mother passed away, there was no one left to cook at home.

The child is hungry and cries endlessly when he sees his mother lying down every day. My dad is at a loss as he can’t cook at all! I could only follow my mother's instructions, cook porridge, buy pickles, and finish the New Year's Eve dinner with my baby.

Dad Bao sighed and slapped his mouth: "Hey, I'm sorry! Get better soon! I usually despise you for being a freeloader and nothing. I didn't expect that I still have to rely on you to do it. We need to eat, otherwise our whole family will go hungry."

It turns out that Xiao Li is a full-time mother who usually relies on her husband for living expenses and has no status at home. Her baby is 4 years old. After sending her to kindergarten, Xiao Li can rest.

Three months ago, Xiao Li felt that she had been very tired in the past four years, especially being looked down upon by her husband, which made her particularly tired. She hopes to take a few months off and work part-time when the "catering industry" regains its vitality.

Unexpectedly, with this little accident, Bao’s mother’s family status was suddenly improved. At least, her husband will not resent her for not having a job.

What will the family look like after Mommy "stops working"?

Some macho husbands always look down on their mothers, thinking that they are nothing if they "stretch out their hands for money" and have no job, no ability, no money to make.

But what will happen to their home when their mother stops working at home?

Mom Xiao Wang said: The last time my husband and I had a fight, I went back to my parents’ house in anger. Seven days later, I came back by myself. When I opened the door, I was dumbfounded.

The house was in a mess, there was no where to go, the pots and pans were all dirty, there were several layers of dust on the cabinets, it was simply unsightly.

Mom Xiao Zhao: My husband can’t cook. Once I was hospitalized for half a month. When I got home, I found that there were a sack of take-out boxes at home. It was very scary.

Mother Xiao Wu: I don’t dare to stop working. I’m afraid that both children will starve to death.

The more men "can't do housework", the easier it is to look down on "full-time mothers"

There are always some who can't do housework and even have basic cooking skills. A very weak man, instead, stood on the moral high ground and accused Bao's mother of being "good for nothing". Criticize stay-at-home mothers who only know how to take care of children and cook, and are not as good as other women.

But in fact, being a full-time mother is really a "profession" that deserves respect. Having a stay-at-home mother at home is particularly beneficial to the growth of children.

What are the benefits to children of having a stay-at-home mother?

After Tao Hong appeared in "Springtime", her acting skills were recognized by the public and she gained a large number of fans. At the same time, because of acting, she fell in love with Xu Zheng for five years and finally got married.

Tao Hong, 35, became a full-time mother after giving birth to her daughter. With Tao Hong's help, Xu Zheng prospered and produced many good works: Thai囧 and Hong Kong囧, which are very popular.

Moreover, Tao Hong’s daughter is also 11 years old. She is very elegant and sensible, and has been well-educated.

When there is a full-time mother at home, not only the husband will help, but also the career will be better and better. For children, they will also receive timely education and become better talents.

Having a full-time mother at home is very beneficial to the child:

① Taking care of the child is very timely

When the child is growing up, whether he is sick or every time Small progress like learning to walk.

If a mother is by her side and observes carefully, she can take care of her child in time to prevent the child's illness from getting worse and prevent the child from making mistakes in learning and progress.

This kind of care and patience cannot be replaced by outsiders such as nannies.

②Educate your children cruelly enough

There is no comparison between having someone to help take care of your children and a stay-at-home mom taking care of your children.

For example, if outsiders discover that a child has done something wrong or lied, they may not tell the child deeply. But Bao's mother is different. Bao's mother will educate her children ruthlessly so that they can have a long memory.

Therefore, children raised by full-time mothers will be well educated and will be more conducive to their growth and success.

However, not everyone can be a full-time mother, and they need to give up a better life trajectory.

For example, Mom doesn’t have much time to go shopping and play with her best friends; it’s even more difficult for Mom to return to the workplace and work hard. This kind of sacrifice is so great that it is difficult for a stay-at-home mother to understand it.

Appealing to everyone: Housewife is a profession, a profession that should be recognized and respected by men.

Putting aside everything else, the three meals a day cooked by a stay-at-home mom should be recognized by her family, don’t you think?