Chrysanthemums bloom every year. Although people get older every year, their hair turns white. However, as long as people are still healthy and have a drink, the chrysanthemums in front of them seem to be smiling. In the autumn of the Double Ninth Festival, we climb high and overlook with our parents and old friends. "People love flowers and laugh" is our beautiful life vision.
Regrettably, there are still many elderly people whose living conditions are not optimistic, especially mentally and psychologically, in a state of extreme poverty, and extreme events are frequently reported in newspapers. In the network and digital age, the true and false jy of Li Kui are mixed, so it is difficult to ask the whole society to treat every old person well, respect them, tolerate them and love them. Older friends should first keep healthy and open-minded, which is the best secret of longevity and the most powerful backing against malice.
"Yellow flowers. Say yes every year, while Qiu Guang is old. Green temples can't frighten autumn. If you fight in front of a statue, people will laugh. What do you know about flat peaches? Who lives in Sanshan Island? When I crossed to Lu' an, the sea flew and the world was bound. " On the Double Ninth Festival, chrysanthemums are everywhere, and I like to watch Xin Qiji's Drunken Flowers.
Every autumn, I go to Baotu Spring to enjoy chrysanthemums. Jin Ju is splendid, and tourists are everywhere in spring. Old people with thick hair are always the most enthusiastic. I went to Baotu Spring and took some photos. Every time, I slapped all kinds of beautiful chrysanthemums in gold, purple, white and green, and old people often came to communicate with me. "Girl, this looks good, take this!" Or, they smiled and said to me, "Girl, come and take a picture of us!" " "Take pictures of them seriously, and they will say with a warm smile," Girl, I'll take some pictures of you, too. It looks good! " "This time, the mood is always very happy. People in their thirties and forties can still be called "girl, girl" by the old people happily, which feels very kind and comfortable!
It is the same to go to Qianfo Mountain. The old people are in twos and threes, full of enthusiasm and good spirits. And Hong, a mountainous area in the south. This season, the forests are picturesque and the mountain roads are high. There are many children to accompany, old and young, which is also a warm and touching picture.
A few days ago, I read Ma Weidou's post. He said that during the National Day holiday, people visited the museum in an endless stream. For us, we can see warm scenes every day. Old people are pushed by their children to go to the exhibition, or they walk together and take care of each other for life. Such a warm scene is the most valuable place in this society. The world is warm and self-aware.
Ma Weidou is a famous man. He has been to CCTV's Lecture Room. His Ma Weidou Tales is loved by many people, especially his old friends who also like watching TV, and Ma Weidou is highly respected. When I went to Beijing, I specially visited the Guanfu Museum in Ma Weidou. Although it has almost become a punching place for online celebrities, many elderly friends have been there.
Guanfu Museum is located in Jinnan Road, Zhangwan, Dashanzi, Chaoyang District, Beijing. The place is a bit remote, not too big, and the tickets are not cheap, but there were not many tourists when I went. There are many old people, especially children. The children are most interested in the cats in Guanfu Museum, while the old people stop and look at everything in the museum carefully.
"Guanfu" comes from Laozi's Tao Te Ching. "Empty, quiet and loyal, doing everything at the same time, I will watch and see, and everything will return to its roots. After all, it will still be quiet. " This means that no matter how things change, they will eventually return to their roots. "Observing" means seeing, and "recovering" means over and over again. Only by calming down and carefully observing everything in the world over and over again can we recognize its essence.
When you reach the age of 50, you know your destiny; When you are 60 years old, you listen to your ears; At the age of 70, do what you want, but don't cross the line. Everything in the world, the sky is high and the clouds are light, and it is the best state in old age. 1999 Double Ninth Festival, it is a kind of enjoyment to climb high and look far, enjoy chrysanthemums and drink alcohol while calling friends.
Regrettably, there are still many elderly people whose living conditions are not optimistic, especially mentally and psychologically, in a state of extreme poverty, and extreme events are frequently reported in newspapers.
"Xiaodong's kindness to me will never be forgotten in my life." These are the exact words of Aunt Huang. She said: "I have been an old ox all my life. Thank you for singing my heart. " Aunt Huang has no culture, but everything she says is moving. Many netizens commented that listening to everything Aunt Huang said made them feel sad.
Let's take another look. What good does "fake Jin Dong" do her? "How has my sister been recently?" "It's cold, my sister remembers to add clothes." There seems to be no clever trick. Plastic videos are similar to funny videos, but as intimate and careful as selling dog meat, like an emotional network, they firmly trap Aunt Huang.
"Do you think you are a beauty?" "You are over sixty, and people will still like you?" This is where Aunt Huang's husband is full of doubts, and it sounds reasonable. But without comparison, there is no harm. Liars are sweet-talking and caring. Behind every question of Aunt Huang's husband is derogatory and hurtful.
In response to the "fake Jin Dong" incident, Zhang Xin, an associate professor at the School of Psychology and Cognitive Sciences in Peking University, said that the psychological explanation is that the needs of the elderly for intimacy have not been met; The other is that the cognitive function of the elderly declines, and the brain lacks a basic judgment, which may lead to being easily deceived.
Dr Lilac, a well-known official account of WeChat, commented that Jin Dong was fake and loneliness was real, which hit the nail on the head. In a sense, "who is Jin Dong" doesn't matter at all. The important thing is that someone finally cares about them and cares about them.
According to the 13th Five-Year Plan for the Development of the Cause for the Aged and the Construction of the Pension System, by 2020, the number of elderly people over 60 will increase to about 255 million, accounting for nearly 17.8% of the total population. According to the Economic Survey Report of Silver Hair in 2020, silver-haired people spend nearly four hours online every day, among which the use time of short videos has increased the most.
On the eve of the Double Ninth Festival, a mobile content platform released the Internet Life Report of the Elderly in 2020, which revealed the behavior preferences of the elderly over 60 on the Internet for the first time. According to the report, 0. 19% of the elderly spend more than 10 hour online on the content platform APP, and there may be more than 65,438+10,000 elderly people living an extremely lonely life in China, living the life of mobile internet on their mobile phones almost all day.
Among the middle-aged and elderly people who use the Internet, the proportion who have been cheated or suspected of being cheated is as high as 67.3%. Loneliness will make the elderly more willing to communicate with strangers, but this kind of communication by strangers is likely to be malicious. Similarly, many middle-aged and elderly people caught in the scam of health products also said that the care of the staff made them feel the warmth they had never received at home.
In addition to strongly calling on relevant departments to strengthen platform supervision, love, care, warmth and companionship from society and family are particularly important for elderly friends who are relatively closed in spirit and psychology.
I also watched a talk show on Sina Finance a few days ago. Three generations are talking about entrepreneurship. The younger generation is the network celebrity anchor Sydney, with Su Mang, the former editor-in-chief of Harper's Bazaar, in the middle, and the older generation is Ma Jingfen. Sydney and Su Mang are Internet celebrities. Who is Ma Jingfen? I'm all thumbs, what's more, the wrinkles on my face look like vicissitudes of life when I smile at such an old man.
We won't know until we search. Oh, it turned out to be Mrs. Chu Shijian, the chairman of the famous Chu Orange Manor. In the spring of 20 13, Chu Orange Manor was founded with his wife Chu Shijian when he was 80 years old, which is a magnificent legend in his life. She said, "I am also thinking now that my husband is gone. Some people may say that she is still so happy to see her husband gone; I'm embarrassed. I'm embarrassed again. Look at her. She lives on her husband. She became like this when her husband left. "
Su Mang asked, "What should I do?" The old man replied flatly, "I think I will live the life I should live." He said he wanted to, and he missed him. " The words sound just fell and Su Mang and Sydney applauded her. In another interview before, the old man Ma Jingfen said heroically: "Everyone can live to 100 in health, safety and luck, and they can roll up their sleeves and work hard without capping." Although the face has been vicissitudes, but the eyes are clear, with the unique open-mindedness and wisdom of the elderly, especially touching.
In the past two days, various activities have been held in various places to celebrate the Double Ninth Festival. I also watched a special program-"Centenarians Speak Well-off", and invited a group of centenarians from Rugao Changjiang Town, the hometown of longevity in the world, to talk about their well-off on the occasion of the Double Ninth Festival.
The Yangtze River town is adjacent to the Yangtze River, with picturesque seasons. The oldest birthday girl in Sun Wenying was born on 19 1 1 mar15th. She is 1 10 years old, and now her children and grandchildren are around her knees, and five generations live together. According to the old man, she is never picky about food, drinks a little wine every day, insists on taking a walk after meals, and likes to take part in chess and cards to enjoy herself.
Another old man, named Zhou Fenying, was born in191510/.6, with five generations living under one roof. The old man has flexible hands and feet. He not only cooks and eats by himself, but also does farm work and housework at home. He walks briskly, is blind and deaf, and likes to visit his neighbors.
The life of the elderly is also very simple. They like to drink a little wine every day and even eat two meals a day when they are happy. He is particularly open-minded and talkative: "I like to sing while sweeping the floor. My grandson taught me to sing karaoke!" " ""you see, I'm strong! I sift soybeans every year, I can eat and work, and I am in a good mood! "
It is impressive to see Ma Jingfen, Sun Wenying, Zhou Fen Ying chatting with several old people. Although they have different identities, they are all equally open-minded and detached.
In the era of networking and digitalization, it is difficult to ask the whole society to treat every elderly person well, respect them, tolerate them and love them. Old friends should first keep themselves healthy and open-minded, which is the best secret of longevity and the most powerful backing against malice.
May all the old people in the world live a long and healthy life and be happy!