There are four tragedies in life: the widow is sad with her son, the general is captured by the enemy, the maid-in-waiting is out of favor, and she is the first to raise her heart.
1, Sixi comes from Hong Mai's "Rongzhai Essays, Four Writings, Volume Eight, Proud and Frustrated Poems" in the Southern Song Dynasty: "After a long drought, I meet an old friend in another country; Wedding night, to be no.1 time. "
2. Four Sorrow comes from Song Hong Mai's "Four Poems of Rong Zhai: Proud and Frustrated", which sums up "Widows with their children, generals being captured by the enemy, falling out of favor with ladies-in-waiting, and falling behind to raise their children's hearts". Whenever people think about this, they are not only dejected, but also inexpressible.
Rong Zhai's essays have four volumes of eight poems: there are four poems in the old biography that praise the people who are proud of the world: "After a long drought, I have seen an old friend in another country." Wedding night, when the gold list is in name. " The busybody continued with four words of frustration: "The widow wept with her children, and the general was captured by the enemy. The face of the ungrateful maid-in-waiting is the first to raise people's hearts. " These two poems are extremely gratifying and sad.
Extended data 1, long drought meets manna
No matter the long-term drought in ancient and modern times will affect the harvest of crops, especially in ancient times, people lived by planting dealers, but the long-term drought is likely to cause no grain harvest, which will also lead to the tragedy that a family may starve to death. When a long drought ushered in a sweet rain, it not only represented that the climate gradually returned to normal, but also that the planters survived and had a harvest.
Nowadays, a long drought is equivalent to some external pressure for a long time, which is like giving charcoal in the snow after a long drought.
2. Meet an old friend in another country
A stranger in a foreign country will make you feel very lonely. At this time, if you have a fellow villager, it will become a lifeline to let go of it in a lonely country. It will not only enable you to communicate, but also help each other when you are in trouble.
3. Wedding night
Marriage is definitely indispensable for a happy event in life. Whether it is ancient or modern, it is very festive to support the old couple. Only one wedding in life is not only a happy event but also a precious memory.
4. to be no.1 time
In ancient times, the imperial examination was the only way to study hard in the cold window for ten years, so when I was on the gold list, I gave myself an account of my efforts for so many years. Nowadays, people are very happy when they study hard and get good test results or try to enhance their abilities and get a promotion in their positions. The more difficult the goal is, the stronger the sense of accomplishment and joy will be when it is achieved.
5, the widow with children cry:
Among many tragedies in life, the most tragic one is the loss of a teenager's father. As the saying goes, men are the pillars of the family. Without the pillars, this family can be good. What's more, ancient women didn't have jobs and men, so the sky didn't fall. A widow with a young child can have a good life. It takes a lot of coldness and coldness, and a strong heart to bear it.
6. When the general is captured:
People in this life, who can guarantee that everything goes well, everything goes well, there will be a time when Maicheng. A hero as big as Guan Yunchang sometimes goes to Maicheng. No matter how imposing you were. When you are frustrated, there is nothing you can do. In the face of frustration, how can a person face it in order to truly see a person's ability to resist blows.
7, ungrateful maid-in-waiting face:
It's something that only existed in ancient times. Now that you are not popular, do you have a normal heart and the ability to face loneliness and loneliness? Flowers are not red for a hundred days, and people are not good for a hundred days. The scenery of the past can only be memories. There are many new people in the world. Who cares about the loneliness of the old people? If a person doesn't face the loss, he wants too much, and it is inevitable that he will have a hard time. The so-called: "greed, anger, and stupidity." Because you are greedy first, and you are never satisfied. When you meet the gap in reality, you will be psychologically unbalanced. I feel resentful and even possessed.
8. Take the lead:
In ancient times, everything was inferior, only reading was high. The purpose of reading: to be an official. As an official, you have everything. Once you are out of Sun Shan, what's the point? If you don't study, the problem is that you can't get fame after reading. That kind of loss is beyond the understanding of ordinary people.
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