is

silver,

silence

is

gold.

There is this story: a guest who came from a long distance solemnly gave a gift box to his master, and the master was very happy to receive it, and opened it to see just three very The owner was very happy to receive the gift box, but when he opened it, he saw only three very ordinary little gold men. The owner asked the guest why he had sent him such little gold figures.

The guest took out three small gold on the table, with a straw to do an experiment to the master to see, when the straw through the first small gold man's left ear, straw from the right ear out; the guest and the straw into the second gold man's left ear, straw immediately from the mouth of the gold man spit out; when the guest once again into the third straw into the gold man's left ear, but was swallowed by the third gold man into the stomach, never to come out. never to come out again.

This story actually tells us a truth about being a human being: there is a kind of person who is very negative about being a human being, who doesn't think about anything with all his heart, and who finds it hard to do anything with all his heart, and who has a kind of mixed-up attitude towards life. That is, the first gold man, all everything will not go through his thinking, not to mention put into action, the left ear into the right ear out, as if nothing has happened, this is a kind of negative confrontation with the emotions of life, but also a kind of indulgence in their own, on the good and constructive suggestions and even lazy to pay attention to, for a long time immersed in their own fixed thinking, do not want to develop and do not want to break through, do a person to pass the The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.

Some people are very shrewd in small ways, like to focus on the immediate interests, but also good at taking advantage of all the opportunities, in order to show their own knowledge, like to ask around, and then irresponsible nonsense. Some are because of the simple-minded, no brain, like to become the protagonist of the gossip, may not have much malice, only to see and hear will not be analyzed, said the words are just a simple repetition of other people, the said should not be said are said. Talking about what intentions, there may not be, but sometimes too keen to spread some unrealistic statements, so that people around the embarrassment and even make a lot of rights and wrongs, and it is likely to be utilized by people with ulterior motives. Being a human being sometimes needs to be a little thicker, what you hear and see may not be true, one-sided words will hurt people in the form of invisible, irresponsible dissemination may bring unnecessary interference to others. That's what the second jinx is trying to warn people about: be careful what you say and what you do.

In a particular environment or a particular period of time, silence is the best way to deal with people. A lot of time a lot of things, not who want to how can be how, there are many objective and subjective factors affecting the development of the situation. For many unproven statements it is best not to comment, in the stomach, so that the bad rumors stop in your silence, responsible for others is also their own respect.

Modern society should be the age of individuality, the publicity is their own self-confidence, silence is on some dark things. Doing people's leisured, by virtue of the real ability, rather than stepping on other people's shoulders is not enough stability, with a kind of plausible slander to get what they want, even if everything can be temporarily obtained, but lost the dignity of being a human being should be.

"Silence is golden." It is in the moment of life's chaos, silence and stillness in order to maintain their own sobriety. When life's huge waves come, with their own steady action to resist, the power of language is pale invalid, even if you make all the strength of the whole body can not shout and the sound of the waves and the volume of resistance, silence is not to give in but to save up the power of the next rise, looking for the time to get out of the real splendor of life.