The way to learn is the way to behave. Dead reading, dead reading, ignorance of contingency, ignorance of the world, ignorance of ingenuity and convenience, this is a nerd, reading is useless. In this world, it is impossible to be alone in the outside world. It is also a science to associate with people, what kind of friends to make and what kind of friends not to make. The following nine kinds of people can pass by, so don't be intimate:

First, people who have no principles.

This kind of person is very tactful, commonly known as "the wall grass", and he will fall where the wind blows, without firm stand and principle. This kind of person is versatile, sociable, seemingly approachable, but hard to trust, not suitable for making friends, and does not need to make friends.

Second, an idle person.

Such people are often people who lack a sense of responsibility and ideals and ambitions. They are lazy, lazy, greedy for enjoyment and unwilling to pay. There is a saying that "people are full of warmth and lust, and people are idle." This kind of person can easily transmit some negative energy and bring unnecessary burdens and troubles to others. For this kind of person, you should stay at a respectful distance from others, don't have too much contact, and don't need to make friends.

Third, unfilial parents.

All the virtues puts filial piety first, and filial piety to parents is a person's most basic moral character. If you are not filial to your parents, or even beat and scold your parents, you have no gratitude at all. How can you be grateful to others? How can he transmit positive energy to society? This kind of person must stay away from it and is not worth socializing with.

Fourth, people who are too poor to love the rich.

There are many such people, who are generally vain, like to cling to the powerful, please the rich, and look down on the poor and down-and-out. If you have money and status, he will surround you like a pug; Once you're down and out, he'll throw you aside like garbage, or even hit Reservoir Dogs when he's down. This kind of person is not worth talking to.

Fifth, people who are ignorant and faithless.

This kind of person likes to put on airs and talk nonsense. On the surface, he looks very frank, easy to talk, responsive, and he promises to do whatever he wants. But in the end, nothing can be done, nothing can be fulfilled, and he can find countless excuses to shirk himself. What's the point of associating with such a man of bad faith? It's just a waste of time

Six, mercenary people.

Such people generally have no faith and no moral bottom line. In their lives, money is the supreme thing. For money, they can sacrifice everything, give up everything, annihilate their conscience and do anything. Everything they do is for profit. Such people are very dangerous, so try to stay away from them, because they may betray you for profit at any time.

Seven, flatterers.

Since ancient times, people have always been "sincere advice when most people are least heeded", and they all like to listen to good words, compliments and praises from others. Even if it is hypocritical, flattery sounds very useful. Since everyone has this demand, flatterers have emerged. If you listen to this kind of words too much, you will paralyze your mind and reduce your judgment ability. You will be confused when the time comes. Therefore, such people should not be intimate, which is not good for themselves at all.

Eight, people who like to gossip.

Some people are particularly curious, like to gossip, are particularly interested in other people's privacy, and don't leave the door open. Where there is a little trouble, he is excited, asking around and asking questions, and he is more concerned than treating his own family. Keep a certain distance from this kind of person, otherwise, in case there is something private and confidential in your family, you may be exposed by him.

Nine, people who are too scheming.

Some people are shrewd, scheming, calculating, often punning, and hiding something in their words. Sometimes you talk to him for a long time without knowing what he is thinking, and you have to guess slowly. If you guess wrong, you will be laughed at by him. This kind of person may not be harmful to us, but getting along with them is too tired, so it's hard for you to tell which sentence is true and which one is polite. If you are not careful, you will be calculated by them, so stay away from them.