"Lao Xing, are you hungry?

If you are hungry, please tell Xiangyu that Xiangyu will give you a fat intestine ... "

In 25, 34-year-old NI YAN finally got rid of his 15-year walk-on career with the help of Tong Xiangyu.

However, while she was standing on the podium, her 7-year-old daughter was crying for her mother at her grandparents' home.

in 1971, NI YAN was born in Xi' an, Shaanxi, an ordinary worker's family.

She is the youngest daughter in the family, with a sister who dotes on her and loves her.

When NI YAN was a child, he was indifferent to the world and was well protected.

So that the neighbors love to tease her, just as the most common lie we heard when we were young was:

NI YAN would really take it seriously and run out crying.

The neighbors ran after her and found her standing beside a trash can, as if watching carefully from which she picked it up.

Although people still enjoy teasing NI YAN, they will add a sentence: "I'm just kidding you."

NI YAN has two names so far, one is Yan Kaiyan and the other is NI YAN.

When I was born, my father looked up many dictionaries to get this name.

But as he grew up, NI YAN's temper was too bright, and he often made "secret deals" with the little boy.

Let him steal the fried fish from grandma's house, and then "reward" him to wear a skirt for a day.

My mother thinks that if she keeps stocking like this, she will really become a real Shaanxi man.

I decided to pull back from the brink in time and start from scratch, starting with the name.

With a wave of his hand, he named her NI YAN, but her father didn't agree.

So they were deadlocked for a long time because of their names, and finally they decided to call each other.

My mother called her NI YAN, but my father still called her Yan Kaiyan.

In terms of dressing style, my father followed my mother's wishes and began to dress her up like a little princess.

The family is not rich. Most of NI YAN's clothes are left over by her sister or given by her neighbors.

therefore, we always wear whatever we have, and we never choose.

Mother has consciously bought some princess dresses for her since then.

In previous years, NI YAN's request for new clothes for the Spring Festival was to move easily so that she could jump up and down.

But in that year, the task of making new clothes was taken over by my father's old friend.

specially entrusted by my mother, I have to catch up with the work later than before.

Many of the 45th Middle School in Xi 'an, where she attended, were children of the studio.

My mother was ready for NI YAN to cry. I didn't expect that after she got it, she couldn't put it down, and even carefully protected her dinner.

Mother secretly poked NI YAN's father with her finger to show him the change of her daughter.

When NI YAN was 15 years old, his family moved from the west of the city to the vicinity of Xi 'an Film Factory in the south of the city because of his father's promotion.

Many of the 45th Middle School in Xi 'an, where she attended, were children of the studio.

Everyone's enthusiasm for entering the art school is very high. Influenced by the environment, NI YAN also fell in love with the film industry subtly.

However, she was not selected when enrolling students in advance, so she chose the business management department of Shaanxi University of Finance and Economics as the next best thing.

NI YAN doesn't like doing business herself, what's more, the flame about art has not been extinguished in her heart.

So in 199, NI YAN was a sophomore.

The Combat Drama Troupe of the Political Department of Lanzhou Military Region came to Xi 'an to enroll students. NI YAN was afraid of being stopped by his family, but he kept it a secret.

after the final score comes down, enter with absolute advantage.

Therefore, I joined the army and became a literary and art soldier, and I had a big fight with my parents because of this. Finally, my sister came forward to persuade me, and the dispute came to an end.

When he entered the Lanzhou Military Region Combat Drama Troupe, NI YAN was sent to the PLA Art College for further study, and he became classmates with Hong Jiantao, an old money, and Gao Yalin, a Xia Donghai.

Hong Jiantao once jokingly said:

They had a good relationship when they were in the PLA Art College, and they often rehearsed sketches and grinded dramas together.

NI YAN needs to return to the Lanzhou army after graduation, and Hong Jiantao leads a large group of people to escort the girls to the car.

When he left, NI YAN took Hong Jiantao's hand and said,

Hong Jiantao always remembered the momentum of this top gun.

However, during his years in Lanzhou, NI YAN and his friends in the army did not live as fast as Beijing.

After completing the assigned tasks, everyone can go out freely.

During that time, NI YAN's weight increased rapidly. The biggest exercise was to take a walk by the river after dinner, and her acting skills didn't break through for a long time.

Until one day, Hong Jiantao wrote a letter inviting her to join his Air Administration Drama Troupe.

This made NI YAN wake up. If he still hasn't changed his mind, he should be more sympathetic.

In 1994, NI YAN decided to go to Beijing for development.

According to my friend Hong Jiantao's cooking stove, I tried my best to lose weight and keep my image. Finally, I was admitted to the Air Administration Theatre in the same year, so I wouldn't be living on the streets in Beijing.

However, NI YAN's situation has not improved since he joined the drama troupe.

Not well-known, and looks are not the best in the group.

Most of the roles assigned are walk-on or marginal roles.

In the first drama "Xiangjiang River, Xiangjiang River" she participated in, there was only one line, and then it was "falling to the ground and sacrificing".

But even if there is only one action and one line, NI YAN is never careless in the rehearsal.

I rehearsed again and again, and I fell all over with bruises, but I never complained.

Not every effort can bring us gains. What we can do is to keep working hard and wait quietly.

When I went home to visit relatives during the Chinese New Year, my mother held NI YAN, who had lost weight for a long time, in tears.

Tell her more than once, or come back and stop suffering in Beijing.

NI YAN thought about this question carefully, but he couldn't give his family a definite answer after thinking for a long time.

Fortunately, when she returned to Beijing again, she met her love.

In 1996, NI YAN talked about her first love.

My boyfriend's surname is Qiu. He only knows that he used to be a soldier, and then he worked in the Beijing Public Security Bureau.

Both of them are each other's first love. On the premise that they are both ignorant of love, NI YAN doesn't have much idea about marriage.

after only one year of dating, they decided to get married.

NI YAN thinks it's a natural thing, but he doesn't even think it's serious. He treats it as a normal thing.

When NI YAN's father called her into the study under the pretext of "I have a few words with you", he talked for 4 minutes.

she just felt it, as if it was really a big thing in life.

NI YAN's parents are actually very satisfied with her boyfriend. She has a stable job and a fixed residence in Beijing, which are all standard for a son-in-law.

I found that they lacked one of the most important things, which was companionship.

Because of working in the public security, NI YAN's husband often comes home late, and there is no fixed off-duty time at all.

During the wedding, NI YAN will stubbornly wait for her husband to come back for dinner.

but it's not only the food that cools down again and again, but also her heart.

The two talked openly about this issue, and Yan Ni once found the reason on herself.

Is it because her work is too idle that she needs her husband's company very much?

I asked the elders at home, and many people advised them, "Just have a baby."

They did take this advice. On January 1st, 1998, their daughter Zou Yuanqing was born.

NI YAN called her daughter a gift from God. Before the child was 4 years old, she didn't miss any moment of growth.

But marriage can't be made by only one person. NI YAN's husband takes care of everyone and has no time to take care of the small family.

Contradictions in life accumulate day by day, and the happiness and pain of stay-at-home mothers are tearing NI YAN apart.

In my career, too many former friends came to ask NI YAN, why not continue filming?

NI YAN didn't know how to answer them. In 22, Shang Jing, who was also in the Air Administration Drama Troupe, invited her to star in Health Express.

It was the first time that NI YAN left her for three or four months after the baby was born. At first, when she was taken care of by her grandparents, she still felt uneasy.

I called twice a day to ask about the situation. Shang Jing asked her to film with peace of mind and feel the fun before she could find herself.

Slowly, NI YAN's phone calls gradually decreased.

At this moment, Yan Ni really realized that career is the last thing a woman can give up.

It represents a person's motivation and confidence, and the feeling of asking for money is different from the experience brought by spending money freely.

NI YAN is struggling, and children are always a tie to a family.

In the filming of Health Express, there was also an oolong incident.

Because NI YAN and Hong Jiantao had opposite plays, they were really sleepy after the play, so they fell asleep on the sofa.

As a result, NI YAN's phone rang, and Hong Jiantao answered it conveniently.

I heard it was not for myself, and then I handed it to NI YAN.

It happened that this phone call was made by NI YAN's husband again. Both voices were just waking up, so it was hard not to stop the caller from imagining things.

Because of this incident, the communication between NI YAN and her husband, which was already limited, became even less.

NI YAN mentioned this matter generously in the program, and told many media who wanted to gossip about her and Hong Jiantao:

NI YAN wanted to sit down with her husband and talk about it, but as always, she couldn't find the time, or she talked about it on the first day, but she looked like it again the next day.

NI YAN finally got tired and offered to divorce.

In this marriage, everyone can see NI YAN's contribution.

Even when her husband didn't want a divorce, it was his sister who took the initiative to persuade him to let go and let him give NI YAN a chance to pursue his own happiness.

There is nothing wrong with either of them. It is the triviality of life and all kinds of disappointments that lead to bad results.

In NI YAN's mind, there is an established agreement that she will not reveal the other half's personal information in front of the media.

Some emotional events can be shared, but we still know nothing about people.

Seven years of marriage has come to an end. It is absolutely impossible to say that you are not sad.

In order to escape from this negative environment, NI YAN left her children to be raised by her grandparents, and moved back to the dormitory of the Air Affairs Theatre alone.

NI YAN, who hasn't returned to the collective for a long time, is also uncomfortable. She often sits in the yard and looks at the stars and the moon.

Replacing inner loneliness with lonely emotions just happened to catch up with the period when Health Express was the hottest.

Shang Jing wants to strike while the iron is hot and make another light comedy TV series.

NI YAN caught the hair dryer downstairs and asked, "Do you have time? Come and play the heroine! "

NI YAN's heroine, who has been waiting for more than ten years, unexpectedly appeared in this mood, but she had no reason to refuse, so she agreed.

There is this classic-Legend of Wulin.

Tong Xiangyu in Legend of the Wulin is a widow whose husband died, and she treats Mo Xiaobei who is not related to her relatives as her own daughter.

under the shell of such a comedy, there are more tragic characters.

fortune is where misfortune depends, and misfortune is where fortune comes from.

It was only after NI YAN experienced a lot at that time that he was able to show the complexity of the role.

in front of the camera, she laughed and looked silly.

But outside the camera, Yan Ni had unconsciously thought about the failed marriage many times, and had secretly cried many times in her room.

she is unfortunate and lucky.

The 8-episode Legend of the Wulin was broadcast in the prime time of CCTV, which was the first time that NI YAN played the TV series of the heroine, and won a full house applause.

This TV series has set a new record for viewing, and "Tong Xiangyu" has also become the most classic role in TV dramas.

She was 35 years old that year and finally achieved initial success.

In 29, NI YAN created the only female character included in the historical yearbook of China TV series-Niu Flower.

"The North Wind Blows" won her the highest award in the TV drama festival, the Flying Award and the Golden Eagle Award, the two best actress gold cups.

In 211, someone took photos of Grace Wai Wong and NI YAN at night.

NI YAN, a 9-year-old Wang Wei, was NI YAN's first love affair after her divorce.

But neither side admitted it. When faced with questions, NI YAN said "I am looking forward to returning to calm", which made the spectators confused.

In the case that NI YAN kept this relationship secret, Grace Wai Wong took the initiative to send a close photo of the two on social platforms.

NI YAN was forced to reveal that the two had broken up, and the photo of that night was a long time ago.

As it happens, Wang Wei has a new play to play, and Si Mazhao's heart is well known.

The storm hasn't stopped for a long time, and the love-hate entanglement between the national actress and Xiao Xianrou happened to hit everyone's appetite.

while people are pressing, people are desperately inciting.

what they don't know is that this kind of thing will happen frequently in the future.

In 214, NI YAN put her daughter on a plane to attend high school in the United States.

In recent years in the United States, my daughter Zou Yuanqing has been encouraging Yan Ni to make a new boyfriend because of the open atmosphere.

So in 216, Wang Qiming, 11 years younger than her, appeared.

She is very tall and handsome, but she has never been as famous as Yan Ni.

announce a relationship.