Everyone who lives in reality will choose the most suitable way to get along with each other in marriage according to their actual situation. In some families, men are the masters and women are the masters, while in others, the situation is just the opposite. This is just a different family life style, and there is no need to praise or criticize it.
Everyone can choose the way to get along in marriage, as long as both of them are happy. My wife and I get along fairly well, which is also the way most couples get along now. Two people * * * face the difficulties and hardships in life together, make money to support their families together, and deal with all kinds of trivial matters at home together.
My parents should belong to the typical male and female. I have a small family, but it is typical that there are women outside and men inside. I don't think one lifestyle is better than the other. As long as the two people in the marriage don't mind, I don't think it matters what lifestyle I choose.
I don't look at housewives with colored glasses, but I don't want to be such a person. Growing up under the influence of my parents, I may be more like my father. He is always responsible and always the head of the family at home.
Although I'm not as strong as him, I still want to be the breadwinner in this family, but my wife doesn't want to be a housewife, which is why the present situation is formed.
I can understand the family orientation of a housewife, but I can't accept it in my own life. I may occasionally envy them that they don't have to fight for their lives, but I still want to face married life in the way I think is right.
In our time, all kinds of strange ways of getting along with husband and wife exist, and everyone should have been used to it long ago. For housewives, choosing such an identity, others will not interfere, mainly through their own hearts.
As long as married life can be maintained in happiness, the lifestyle agreed by both parties will not become an obstacle in married life.