1, can't share a room.
In folk customs, for seven days after the death of a relative, the deceased person doesn't know that he is dead, and will wander around the home or the place he liked before his death. In religious terms, sexual intercourse between men and women is unclean, and it is not appropriate to have sexual intercourse during the first seven days of the wake of a loved one's death, so as not to touch the spirit of the deceased.
2. You can't go to other people's homes
It usually takes seven days before you can go to other people's homes. From the day when your loved ones passed away, a bunch of immediate family members of the deceased should not enter other people's homes during this period, and it is best not to walk towards other people's homes wearing filial piety.
3, can't take a shower
If you strictly follow the traditional rules, you can't take a bath for seven days. But now most places avoid three days. The first seven are still in the period of grief, and generally have no mind to wash their hair and take a bath. This is to express their memory of the deceased.
4. Don't cry
It's human nature to be born, sick and die. Many people feel that they can't accept it after the death of the old man at home, so they have been crying and making a scene. In fact, according to the traditional way, this crying behavior is not good for the old man from a certain point of view, because people die like lights, and the old man wants to get peace after his death. Therefore, at this time, I suggest that everyone try not to cry, the environment should be as quiet as possible, and the family should try to keep quiet when talking.
5. You can't wear red clothes
Try to choose black, white and gray clothes, or choose dark blue instead of red clothes. Try to match different clothes in different environments, which is more appropriate.