Chinese people are famous for their good face. Sometimes it is precisely because of their good face that they waste some social resources. Many people spend money to buy things and always spend money to eat. You feel like you have to order a big meal to save face, and you have to buy the most expensive things to save face, but have you ever thought in your heart that you really need these things? Do these things really bring value to you? Or can you afford the cost? Does he match your identity?

I have a high school classmate who is a typical person who pretends to be fat. In fact, their family environment is very ordinary, and it is difficult to buy some relatively expensive sportswear. For example, a pair of AJ can pay for his food for several months, but for the sake of face and for others to think highly of him, he saves money. Yong bought a pair of AJs. He felt that others would look up to him if he wore these shoes.

In fact, if others look up to you, you can wear anything. If people look down on you, even if you wear a pair of AJ, people will think that what you are wearing is fake. The fact is, instead of trying your best to buy something that doesn’t suit you, you might as well spend the money to buy something more practical, such as eating better and dressing warmer. A pair of shoes can't buy you anything.

In the final analysis, people love face too much, but how important is face? You can hardly eat and still have such a good reputation, so we must proceed from reality, what we do must be worthy of our current status, and we must truly understand the situation we are in. Only in this way can we live a happy life. is better.