What is an ambitious girl? Because being ambitious means that you have to work harder than others to be worthy of your so-called ideals. Many people may have different understandings of the word ambition. What is an ambitious girl below?

What do you mean by an ambitious girl 1 An ambitious woman is like a rock, but whatever she decides will not be easily shaken, but she will try her best to achieve it. In this life, people can't be happy with everything. It's normal to get hurt when they are moving forward, but many people give up when they are walking for fear of pain and failure. It's not bad to comfort themselves now.

In life, many women with great potential are afraid of being described as "careerists" and are afraid to flinch, struggle and take the lead. However, why are there many people doing the same thing in the world, but some people fail and others succeed? The only thing that those who fail may lack is "ambition". Because. With ambition, you will continue to explore and seek, and even in adversity, you will not lose your enthusiasm for struggle, so that people can continue to create life and achieve success!

Carnegie also warned us that since life is endless, we should keep forging ahead and surpass ourselves. If you are ambitious, don't suppress yourself because of secular vision. Boys can be ambitious, so please allow girls to be. The adult world is cruel. If you want to have a happy love, you have to constantly improve your own value. Behind this value is your confidence and confidence, which is greater freedom of choice. When you become strong, you have the ability to protect the people you love. When love comes, you can hug without scruple.

Love is very simple, how distressed at the beginning, and how distressed at the end. How I liked it at first, and how I liked it later. How did you promise at the beginning, and then you will do the same. Don't stubbornly think that we still have many futures to hurt each other. In fact, sometimes as long as we turn around, we are strangers at the end of the world. Later, I hope our love will not have so many regrets! May you wake up in the morning with a kiss and sleep at night with love. So good!

If people don't have ideals, what's the difference between them and salted fish? I never shy away from saying that I am a woman with desires and ambitions. I expect to stand out from the crowd and live the kind of free life I want, not only economic freedom, but also spiritual independence and freedom.

Some people say, may you look down on the vicissitudes of the world and feel safe inside; But I want to say, I hope you can see what you think clearly, throw away all obstacles and give yourself hope! So what do you think of the ambitious girl around you?

What is an ambitious girl 2 "If a girl is too ambitious, she is not liked."

Recently, I'm chasing "Beijing Women's Picture Book", because I'm in Beijing, and I want to see what kind of posture a girl drifting north should be.

I didn't expect to watch six episodes. I don't know if I watched a fake drama or went to a fake Beijing. It is found that except for the first episode, the heroine's life full of handsome guys and my present life doesn't overlap much.

After graduating from college, the heroine Chen Keyi wanted to go to a big city because she was dissatisfied with the job and blind date arranged by her family. In fact, like most graduates, she has an ordinary background, an ordinary education and an ordinary ability, but she didn't want to live the life of "looking at the end at a glance" just after graduation, so she took the train and went north from Sichuan to take refuge in her old classmates.

She thought she could find a job and start a new life smoothly. During the interview, hr asked her, "Why did you come to Beijing?"

"For dreams!" She is full of confidence.

Unexpectedly, her dream gave her a slap in the face-the interview hit a wall, and the target salary dropped from 6,000 to 4,000 and then to "according to your standards", but it was still fruitless;

Rely on old classmates, but old classmates have ulterior motives and attempt to rape her;

I called my boyfriend for comfort, but the other party only said, "Let's break up."

Chen Keyi's dependence on everything was gone at once.

She finally got a job at the front desk of a small company, receiving express delivery and take-out every day, and being taken advantage of by others did not dare to speak. When I was hungry on the street, I couldn't afford to buy a whole corn, so I took refuge in my high school classmate Wang Jiajia. This old classmate was also enthusiastic. Although she only graduated from high school, she taught her a lot of tricks to mix big cities.

Bite an "X total", buy big-name A goods with high imitation, and open up contacts in various night wine fairs.

Fortunately, Chen Keyi is not a silly and sweet character used in domestic dramas. He is still a little clever in simplicity, and he immediately understands the rules of big cities in Jiajia's mouth. Similarly, he also adapts to the changes in the temperature of big cities.

Fortunately, she was sober and pulled herself up in many quagmires that were about to fall into. Whether it was the ambiguous invitation of her boss late at night or the intrigue of office politics, she didn't attach herself to anyone and wanted to stand up on her own.

When she entered the new company, she removed the "Yi" from her name and became "Chen Ke", starting her life in the North. She said:

"Since all the girls in the city are fighting for the pair of crystal shoes that can go to the dance, I might as well earn money to buy a pair myself, and maybe I can get there faster."

Once a person knows that he has no support behind him, he can only move forward, and then there will be new possibilities.

Of course, I won't spoil it for the first time. In short, this TV series will stew the lives of many girls drifting north into a pot of spicy food, which is attractive, enjoyable, full of sound and taste.

Compared with such a rich life and me drifting north, my life seems a lot less interesting.

My company is a little outside the North Second Ring Road. In order to save trouble, I rented a house that only takes five minutes. My boss nice and colleagues are a group of literary youths. There is no office politics, no wine bureau and polite words, and even no heavy makeup to compare with Yingying Yanyan's clothes. Everyone happily discusses books, programs and life.

Perhaps it is the characteristics of the industry and the atmosphere of the company that take good care of me. As a new intern, I don't think there is much error between my dream and reality, and the colorful logo of TV series may only exist in the workers' stadium a few kilometers away.

However, there is a short line in the play that pokes me. "Women who have desires make men dislike them."

Juck Zhang, the heroine's second boyfriend, said this sentence. He is Chen Ke's boss, and he fell in love with her because he liked this kind and sincere girl. They did have a happy love life. At that time, Juck Zhang hoped to struggle with Chen for a few years, and then they went home to live together. He loved her, and even the wedding room and how the children went to school were considered.

Strangely, some people know enough is enough, and they will accept it when the house price is good, but some people just refuse to accept it, that is, they have to play hardball with life.

Chen Ke wanted to stay in a big city. She felt that the man in front of her didn't match her plan for the future, so she left: "Juck Zhang, I love you, but I seem to love myself more."

Some people think that Chen Ke is so stupid that he doesn't know how much he weighs. It's hard to find an affordable man like Juck Zhang, so it's better to get married early and live a good life.

Is it difficult to take root in Beijing? It is too difficult.

But Chen Ke's dream is still going on, and I'm waiting for the following story to see how this girl laid her own corner in this city without relying on anyone.

When I was still in school, I longed for such a day of struggle in a big city. But people around me, including my family, also advised me that it is really too hard for you to be a girl outside.

In the last round table, Jiang Fangzhou mentioned a point: We are often keen to talk about great artists with great talents, but more people in this society are just small talents.

She said: "In a sense, this society is cruel to most talented people. Because on the one hand, small talented people broke away from mediocrity and began to pursue different things, saying that I don't want to live a mediocre life, but on the other hand, his talent can't support his ambition and his imagination with great artists. "

Too many people, when they were young, received some praise from beautiful words, and received some recognition, light or heavy, and their expectations for life suddenly floated up, so they couldn't stand the status quo, as if the distance was their hometown.

So so many people who are "restless", "restless" and "aggressive" run out and go to big cities to prove themselves. It would be very painful to hide their talents and talents.

But if they really go to a big city, maybe they will be deeply lost. There are thousands of people in Qian Qian who use their dreams as their navigation, and they want to go to a place where there are more similar people, and they want to go to a place where they can display their strength.

Ambitious people are bound in small places, but they will live very hard in big cities.

But such hard work is not pain.

I had spicy pot with a girl who came to Beijing the other day. Her home is as far away from here as mine. I said, will you stay here all the time? She said, maybe not, but she paused and said, maybe.

"After staying in a big city for a long time, I went back to my place of life and found that those who are most familiar with me seem to have lost the same language as themselves."

I understand the feeling she said. When you really see some of the world, you will find it really boring to go back to the small corner at the beginning and listen to people around you arguing about some daily life that is not necessary at all, and spend day after day in the sun.

You will suddenly miss the bells and footsteps in big cities, and suddenly remember that you once dreamed hard, worked hard to create your own conceived works, looked up under sweat and saw that everything was clear.

As the writer Green Demon wrote a passage:

"Who has been to a big city when he was young, jumped into the steaming of thousands of life aspirations, fought hand-to-hand with life, and experienced everything it can give, as if dreaming, but exerted extra effort and investment.

In the dust and noise of reality, sooner or later, you will have a moment to feel the music in your heart, so melodious and so bright with the city.

Whose life has been wiped like this will surely miss this melody for life. "

I often meet some girls and ask me whether I should go far away or stay, and whether a girl's ambition is good or not.

I don't know.

Because being ambitious means that you have to work harder than others to be worthy of your so-called ideals.

At the same time, as you go further, you may drift away from many people you once thought were fellow travelers. May not be understood, may lose a stable and ordinary life.

In a word, it will be a hard life.

But I also want to say that this is good.

Because it is those ambitions that can support people, make life open and full of possibilities, and make you force yourself to do one thing after another that you think you can't finish, and then suddenly realize:

"Oh, so I can be like this."

A girl's ambition can help her fulfill her own value and make her understand that her own value never only means being liked by any man.

Do you consider yourself an ambitious person?

What do you mean by ambitious girls? 3 What happened to those girls with great ambitions?

Those girls with great ambitions all lived well in the future.

Later, they all realized their ambitions and became goddesses in the spotlight. And those suitors who were rejected by them before are still at their feet and willing.

At this age, do girls still have to pursue their career ideals with trepidation and carefully hide their ambitions?

Please don't ask me what my hobby is.

Whenever someone asks me what I usually do when I have nothing to do, I will be speechless and reflect silently in my heart. What do I spend my daily time doing?

I seldom watch movies, TV series and variety shows. Novels and animation games are completely untouched. I will eat and go shopping with my friends, but it is rare. I seem to read some books, if the Principles of Economics and Historical Records count. By the way, there is listening to music, but isn't that everyone's hobby?

I think my spare time, besides doing projects, doing operations, rehearsing and improving myself, may be an average of one or two hours of weekly variety shows and brushing WeChat Zhihu Taobao Little Red Books. I, have no so-called hobbies.

But I'm not sad about it. In fact, I chose not to have an amateur life. I hold myself to the standards of those who spend all their time on their careers. How can I allow myself to have an amateur life?

Only work can make me really happy from the heart, and only doing things can really satisfy me. Because everything I like is very expensive, the places I want to go are far away, and the people I like are excellent, so I have to keep walking and work hard.

You need to always remember what you really want and what can really make you happier. The best way to cherish time is to do something that can make you feel happy and meaningful in the limited time as much as possible. Find out what you really want, and then exchange it equally, don't give it away.

Excellent girls have no sex life.

Before going to college, the so-called criteria for evaluating a girl's Excellence are whether her grades are good, whether she is beautiful or not, and whether she is liked by others. Why does this criterion become whether you have a boyfriend and whether your boyfriend is excellent after you go to college?

Although I am not "not falling in love for the sake of not falling in love", I will not choose "falling in love for the sake of falling in love" in order to spend more time on more important things. When you are confused because of annoyance and don't know what kind of person you are, what you like and what you can do, please don't say "Ah, why do you know what you want to do" or "I really envy you for having your own ideas and pursuits". It's not that you can't understand who you are or have your own pursuits. It's that you give up the right to know yourself and have ideals.

I haven't figured out what kind of life I want to live, so I don't want to accept a person's pursuit casually; I haven't lived the life I want yet, so I'm determined to go that way. There is a word in the field of economics called "opportunity cost", which means that if you choose to choose your time and energy in one field, it means giving up investment in other fields. I am willing to bear the price I have to pay for the part of my life that touched me the most.

Have you ever thought about telling your boyfriend when you are in a bad mood or bullied, asking him for help when moving or dragging a suitcase upstairs, eating, shopping and watching movies with your boyfriend on weekends or holidays, but while indulging in romantic love, you complain that you have nothing but feelings. You want the most precious thing in the world with your mouth open, and what are you going to pay for it?

I still believe in love, but I don't quite believe that the best and purest love will happen to me. There are too many places I want to go, things I want to do and people I want to know in my heart. How can I be willing to let myself get old in the triviality of life?

I saw through myself and the world at a young age.

I have long understood that I don't want the kind of life that most people admire. In my opinion, stability and simplicity are "boring" and "looking at the end" life. I don't want that. Hu Shi warned his son: be a first-class person. We should do our best in everything, go to the best school as far as possible to study, and go to a good platform as far as possible to work. I also want to see what vision, resources and opportunities a good platform can bring me. What I want is what Yang Lan called "a rich and valuable life, an emotional world full of love and warmth".

I know that there are not many opportunities to achieve greatness, so I tell myself that I must work hard towards my goal every day. I know that the muttering of the weak will not be heard, so I try my best to have a say.

Life is so shallow and cruel. You are afraid of the cold in winter, so you will lose to those girls who wear stockings when you wear long pants; You are afraid of being tired when you walk, so you will lose to those girls who are wearing high heels. A girl should have a consistent world outlook. If you make up your mind to be independent, you have to make up for the fighting capacity that broke through the cocoon. The so-called fortress built by the rich is actually full of flaws. What leaks from the cracks in the coarse gravel blocks is the golden sunshine in the morning. The door to the rise of this world has never been closed.

Have you thought about how you want to live your life? Under each survival strategy you choose, how many percent do you want to reach in the crowd?

Who wants to cross the hill and smile? Hands up. Who is willing to fight, self-esteem and blood? 99.9% people put their hands down. Why do you want that one-thousandth life? I've really suffered too much to feel that I deserve all these rewards, and I can afford the glory.

An ordinary girl, taking stock of all her resources, skills and means, is ready to set off and take what she wants from the society.