There is such a friend in my circle of friends, who often eats, drinks, plays and enjoys himself. He is beautiful and beautiful, and his life is very comfortable. Once I commented: I envy your life. Then she replied: Actually, I envy your life more.
There is another friend in my circle of friends who often sends some negative, negative, complaining and sad messages, and life is very depressed. Once I commented: I feel sorry for your life. Then she replied: Actually, I am more sympathetic to your life.
I began to wonder if there was something wrong with my judgment or my friend. Until I posted a circle of friends one day, I struggled for a long time, and finally blocked most people and posted it. From the moment I posted it, I suddenly understood something.
In fact, the circle of friends is good, and real life is good. When you see a person's life glamorous, it is actually his deliberate choice, and he chose to let you see glamorous. And when you see a person's life is fragile, it is also his choice, and he is more willing to let you see fragility. Of course, there are also many glamorous and fragile things that are deliberately created.
But I prefer the first way. I prefer to post some positive energy in the circle of friends, express my bright side to everyone, occasionally complain and be sad, but it may block everyone. I prefer to give you the impression that you are a sunny and energetic person. Although many times it's just my own opinion, it's enough, and with more emphasis, I naturally become the person I want.
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Once I passed a small vendor at night, and a familiar employee in the production workshop stopped me, so I sat down, ordered a plate of fried noodles and a bottle of beer, and chatted with him. I am very interested in his spare time. What does he do after work? He said that he has no special hobby, drinking a bottle of beer occasionally, not smoking or gambling, and his biggest hobby is watching videos or news online. I said, how can you eat at the stall after work today? He replied: Today's work is very hard, so I plan to improve my food and drink a bottle of wine. Say that finish beautiful drink a mouthful of wine.
Very simple answer, but it shocked me deeply. A plate of fried noodles and a bottle of beer can make him feel that he has improved his food, and there may be the heroic spirit of throwing caution to the wind and spending money today. His face is full of happiness when his small wishes are met. What he showed me was sunshine and self-confidence, which was a very bright side, and I felt full of happiness at the moment: come on, let's drink!
And when I was in middle school, I was far from home, and a distant relative near the school invited me to his house for dinner. After repeated invitations, I refused, so I went. There is no courtyard wall in his house. The fence is tied with a fence. There are some vegetables in the yard, and there is a cow tied to the corner of the yard. The house has three earthen houses, which is crumbling. I call her cousin. My uncle is sick and unable to work. My cousin is my superior and has a cousin at home. The food served to me is jiaozi, which contains a lot of fat. I don't eat much, but I can feel that they have been showing me the best side.
Maybe it's really related to these. Although I'm embarrassed, I'm humble and full of sunshine and self-confidence. I believe that life will be good, so life will be really good. Later, my relatives and family moved to Beijing, and the two children were particularly promising!
Yes, whose life is not filthy? Whose life can be smooth sailing? It's just that we need to record the moments that touched us and the expressions that can make us sunny and energetic.
Finally, send some of my favorite lyrics:
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Life is more than just the present.
There are poems and distant fields.
You came into the world with your bare hands.
Desperate to find Na Pianhai.
There is also a song "Once You" that follows the melody and is very emotional.
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I once dreamed of going to the world with my sword.
Take a look at the prosperity of the world
Young hearts are always frivolous.
Now you are at home all over the world
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I hope that many years later, after I get up, I will open the window and smell the birds and flowers. In the afternoon yard, the sunshine dripped on the ground, a table, a chair, a pot, a cup, a piece of paper and a pen. I looked up, full of confidence and sunshine, smiling and looking into the distance, with my family behind me.
Even if you are living a sweaty life now, you should show your bright side.