1, identify where the problem lies.
For a marriage on the verge of breaking up, the first step is to find out the main problems, so that you can know in what direction the next rescue measures should be taken. Go back to the starting point of marriage, carefully sort out the problems between each other, deeply analyze the advantages and disadvantages of yourself and your lover, find the key sticking point, and then find the appropriate solution accordingly and adopt the correct rescue method.
2. Let go of criticism
The reason why marriage has come to such a broken state is precisely because you have never paid attention to the spiritual connection between lovers. When you find that there are problems in your marriage, you must not just dwell on the superficial problems. Don't think that you can stand on the side of truth and forgive others. You might as well ask yourself first whether you have made the emotional connection with your lover, don't shirk your responsibility, don't be aggressive, let go of your criticism, and feel each other's inner world with your heart, so as to continuously strengthen your's spiritual connection.
3. Communicate with love
If you use the wrong way of communication, it will only be counterproductive. Talking unkindly and angrily will not help you save your marriage. The really effective way should be to master the correct communication way of love. The problem in marriage is precisely because you don't love enough, don't understand love and can't love. Communicate with each other with love, learn to express your inner feelings, take the initiative to put forward real needs, and be good at expressing recognition and gratitude. Love is actually an illusory thing, but you can make the other person feel true love with actions and words.
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