When Alipay introduced ANT FOREST to plant trees, everyone felt the sense of accomplishment in planting trees. The whole person instantly became a hardworking little bee, punching in at 7 o'clock every day to collect friends' energy, and taking a look at the big-name list, more than a dozen ring-guaranteed trees and Pinus sylvestris var. Mongolia and Populus euphratica.
I wonder if these people live in ANT FOREST. For the deleted party, it is inevitable to feel sad and wronged because of this little thing being deleted. For the party who deletes friends, it must be unbearable, more than patience. In fact, if you steal energy from each other, it is also a kind of enjoyment. Interpersonal relationships pay attention to reciprocity, which is also applicable here.
Giving and receiving, thinking of others, can promote the interaction between friends. Friends' energy is also saved through hard work, overcharged and properly watered to make up for it. Even if the other person doesn't care, it doesn't mean that you can feel at ease, and there is no indication. Looking at this matter from another angle also illustrates a simple truth. It is often these inconspicuous details that affect us.
Stealing energy is a trivial matter, but we can analyze a person's essence by looking at the big picture. As the saying goes, a leopard can be known by its appearance, but its autumn can be known by its leaves. A person's character and accomplishment are often hidden in such a trivial matter. Everything we do is a business card, which virtually represents our character. Never let these careless little things degrade your image.
Fu Lei said that no matter how trivial things are, they all reflect a person's consciousness and temperament. Although a person's attitude towards life is viewed from trivial matters, it is inevitable that some people will generalize, but there will not be much deviation. It's hard to imagine how reliable a person who can't even take care of the usual details can be in a major event. Some people may say that a real warrior is not informal. Or feel so tired at work every day, how can you care about so many small things?
But in fact, it is often the details that determine the result. Looking back on those moments that passed by the opportunity, if you reply seriously, you will find that most of the details that beat you are ignored. There is a saying that many times, when you look back, you will find that those moments are very important, and you will not realize the important moments in your life.
Similarly, those small things may be insignificant at the moment, but the impact is unpredictable. Intensive reading jun mentioned a folk song in the dictionary entry "284: butterfly effect": a nail was dropped and a shoe was broken; Broke a shoe and a horse; Fold a horse and hurt a knight; Wounded a knight and lost a battle; Lost a battle and lost an empire.
Whether a nail on the horseshoe will be lost is a very small change in the initial conditions, but in the long run, it will affect the life and death of an empire. Small things and links often have unexpected effects. If you want to seize the opportunity when it comes, you must be fully prepared for the details.