When it comes to exams, many people think of student exams, and it just so happens that there are final exams in these two days. Many parents are looking forward to their children's results. The idea that doing well in the exam will bring you face, and doing poorly in the exam will mean losing face surrounds the thinking among parents, making many parents uneasy. The fact that you are uneasy means that you have not correctly understood the exam. The exam is to check and fill in the gaps, which does not mean that you are excellent.
The exam only tests your learning achievements during this period, which also contains an element of luck. One test paper can never cover everything you have learned, and this test paper does not represent everything you have learned. All cities. It only means that you have passed the exam in everything you know how to do, but at this time you don’t know that you don’t know how to do it. For ordinary exams, it is actually a good thing not to have too much. If you know where your child is weak, you can focus on tutoring.
As you grow older, you will experience more and more exams. Many people like to say goodbye before exams. It seems superstitious and makes people laugh, but in fact it is not a joke. This is also the use of people's subconscious mind to pray for their own luck, but some people use it incorrectly and still fail in the exam. In exam after exam, you will find that sometimes you are really lucky and know all the test questions you encounter, and sometimes you are very poor, and even those who know how to take the exam can't take the exam! Do you often hear complaints like this? This is luck. Of course, if you master them all, your results will be very good.
As a parent, you must face the exam correctly. Why are you angry when facing the exam sheet? Are you sure you are better than children? Yesterday, in my son's parent group, I saw the final test paper. Many parents were discussing the difficulty of the test questions. It is naturally good to analyze the paper, but they should be calm when facing the results. Every time there is an exam, a picture of sugar cane will be posted in WeChat Moments, "It is best to take it internally, but not externally." Although this is a joke, it is enough to prove that many people cannot face the exam correctly.
I also joke with the parents in the group. Parents also come to take the test. If their children have high grades, they should go home and not talk about their children. If your child's test paper looks easy to you, that's because you have studied it, and after more than thirty years of life, you are better at analyzing the questions than your child, so it will naturally be easier. Now we are in the third grade of elementary school. When we were in the fifth or sixth grade of elementary school, to be honest, most parents would have failed their children. Parents who are not convinced can give it a try.
If the test paper is difficult even for you, then why should you ask your children to get high scores? After the test paper comes out, take your children to carefully analyze the reasons, find out what they don't know, and practice more. This is what parents should do, isn't it?
Some people's poor performance in exams does not mean that they know nothing, but that their mental quality is too poor. There are many people who are good at everything but can't do anything when it comes to exams. When I was in high school, one of my classmates couldn't do anything in school. As long as you asked him about any course, he could answer it. He knew everything, but every time he took the test, he was average, and his grades were above average. Not enough.
Why is this happening? Many people said that he did not really have knowledge. If he didn't really master it, then why couldn't he be asked about it after class? The final analysis is that the quality of the mind is poor! There is no "big scene". This is why there are still candidates who faint in the examination room in the college entrance examination. Many people excuse it because they are under great pressure. This is just the case for the college entrance examination. So in the future, you will have to face more people at work and what will you do when it comes to performance? Will the stress be solved with just one sentence?
The cultivation of psychological quality is something we should pay attention to in our daily life. If the psychological quality is not good, we will lose many opportunities at work. People with poor grades can slowly improve, but poor psychological quality will make people lose the opportunity to improve their grades. Cultivating psychological quality is a link that should be paid more attention to than grades. Isn’t winning in life a matter of mentality?