I read an article some time ago, which basically means: If you want to see if a person loves you, have a meal with him.
If he often takes time to have dinner with you when he is very busy, it proves that he cares about you very much; If you are often too busy to have dinner with you, it is not enough attention to you;
See if he will ask you what you like to eat. If he does, it proves that he cares about your hobbies. If he doesn't, it means that he loves himself more than you.
San Mao also said: "Love will not last long unless it falls into the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping and counting money."
So, if you can, you must find someone who can "eat" together.
Miss w who likes spicy food VS Mr s who likes noodles with clear soup.
Miss W is naturally addicted to spicy food, claiming that "three meals without spicy food will kill people". Even breakfast is a heavy taste, and she is also a big stomach king. Because she often eats spicy food and eats more, she does not exercise much, so Miss W often suffers from acne all over her face and her waist is getting thicker and thicker. Midnight snacks make her belly more and more fat.
Friends often make fun of her: if you go on like this, your ex-boyfriend will be glad that he broke up with you.
Yes, Miss W once fell in love, but the ending was the bloody story of love rat cheating and then breaking up. Since then, Miss W has been single, lovelorn and stressed at work. During that time, she ate more midnight snacks, and every meal on the table was red. Miss W said that when eating spicy food, because how hot it is, you can paralyze your nerves a little and let yourself not think so much.
Sometimes when I look at myself in the mirror, Miss W also feels very inferior. She really wants to lose weight and then make her skin better. However, she doesn't like sports. She thought about quitting midnight snack and eating spicy food, but she was defeated in front of takeaway in less than 24 hours.
Until one day, she met Mr s.
Mr. s is simply miss w's dream type.
But Mr. s only likes light.
I remember the first time when two people went out to eat alone, Mr. S frowned frequently when he watched Miss W eat a big bowl of mixed noodles full of peppers. Mr. S said: Eat less spicy food. Miss W is such a clever person. Afraid that Mr. S will have a bad impression on her, she quickly said, I only eat spicy food occasionally. In fact, I usually eat very lightly. Mr. S looked at her with satisfaction and nodded: Come to my house this weekend, and I'll cook for you.
Mr. S's invitation made Miss W ecstatic. She once saw such a sentence: If a man is willing to cook for you and do some trivial things for you, then he will definitely want to step into the marriage hall with you.
In fact, Miss W is not bad either. Although she is a little plump, she is not slim and tall. The occasional acne on her face annoys her, but she is better at dressing herself.
Therefore, Mr. S has nothing to be dissatisfied with Miss W.
It's just that miss w underestimated Mr. S.
Mr. s's love of lightness is simply outrageous. All foods can be cooked in clear water without oil, and they can be eaten in the original flavor without seasoning, not to mention frying, frying and frying.
Eat a meal like Miss W swallowing poison, but pretend to be very happy.
Perhaps, Miss W really likes Mr S too much. She thinks it doesn't matter. It's nothing to change for the person she loves. He is so busy at work that he doesn't ask me to cook. Besides, there is nothing wrong with eating lightly. Anyway, I want to lose weight recently, and eating lightly can also make my skin better.
So, Miss W has been living with Mr. S's habit.
But, strangely, our Miss W is not getting thinner and thinner. It turns out that poor Miss W follows Mr. S for dinner, and she can't eat enough at all, so she can only eat more and more midnight snacks and afternoon tea.
That night, when Miss W was alone in the street, she found Mr. S standing in front of her. With an angry face, Mr. S slammed the things in his hand in front of Miss W, and the bag broke, spilling clear soup and dried noodles all over the floor.
Broke up.
Miss W is still single, she still sings happily every day, and then she still eats midnight snack, or she often has three meals that are basically heavy. However, she still insists on exercising every day and occasionally changes.
Change clear soup to dry noodles, but only occasionally. She hopes that the future him will not criticize her because she is not in good shape. She loves spicy food and snacks. She thinks she can find someone who can eat spicy food with her and live together.
Well, no matter how romantic love is, it will eventually be dull and will be three meals a day. Life is trivial enough. I don't want to be flushed every day because of a dish that you don't like and I like at the table. I hope I can find someone to eat with, whether it is sweet, bitter, sour or spicy, we can all taste together.
There is a poetic saying that goes like this:
Who is from the mountains, rivers and lakes, but confined to day and night, kitchen and love.
This sentence is really my Hamlet.
A person, from a melodious and beautiful place, is willing to prostrate himself in the world of mortals for some reasons.
It's a little lucky to be able to sit at the same table and eat happily together after Qian Fan has finished.
I hope we can all have this little lucky in the end!