Two years ago, the era of lovers' well, jack shall have Jill, and now it is the people who can love technology that jack shall have Jill. Many people may stare at me when they see this title, but am I wrong? How many of our male compatriots have really worked hard in falling in love? Most of them are straight men, dumb-mouthed, and can't coax girls. Just relying on their own so-called love, girls are catching up, which is just the beginning. More importantly, if you can fall in love, you can manage love, and you can manage your feelings in the same way, it will be a big problem, because women have been upgraded, but we men have not, and the system is incompatible. How can lovers be married? It's not the skill to raise a girlfriend for others, but the real kung fu is to let others raise a girlfriend for us. I say this, not to let everyone mess around, but to tell you a real point: people who can fall in love can better safeguard their love fruits.
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Love, one step forward is happiness, and one step back is loneliness. Love, when we are young, can't know how to cherish it, but when we know it, it is no longer young. It's really not easy for two people to come to this day. Love needs a unique belief in their hearts, and the belief of loving you. May all lovers in the world get married, and may those who fall in love get married.
Third, save your girlfriend. As a man, you should look like a man. Men must improve their abilities. Men can't have economic status and social status in a short time, but men can have the potential to become better men. How can a man's ability be demonstrated?
1. The resilience of men when dealing with things.
No matter a little woman or a strong woman, all of them like men who are better than themselves. When men solve problems that women can't solve, they also show their charm. We often see men around us who are very popular with their ability to handle things, such as repairing computers, moving luggage, and making travel plans. For example, well-connected people can help solve difficult problems, such as people with strong assets who can provide financial help, and so on. No matter what is big or small, as long as you are valuable to others, you are a capable person.
2. Men's ability to concentrate on things.
Focusing on things is a person's advantage in itself. When a man focuses on one thing, whether it is smooth or not, this process is enough to reflect the charm of a man. We don't mean to forget to eat and sleep for work, but to concentrate on work at work and devote ourselves to leisure at leisure. We won't be in the middle of nowhere, know how to live in the present and devote ourselves to the things at hand. Focusing on things, getting good grades and sharing your success are also the embodiment of men's charm.
3. Men Planning for the Future Exhibition
Passionate about life. A man can't be a monk for a day. What a man needs is a successful career and a happy family. If a successful family is unhappy, no matter how much money there is, there will be no real pleasure. It is conceivable how important love is to family happiness. If you have a plan for the future, then every day you live now will be full of passion, and your energy field will also make people and things around you beautiful.
4. Men are responsible when things happen.
Taking responsibility when something happens is actually a man's sense of responsibility. Only a man with a sense of responsibility can give women a sense of security. Just think, how can people who run away when they encounter something gain people's trust? No one wants to trust a man who has no sense of responsibility. Work needs a sense of responsibility, life needs a sense of responsibility, and love needs a sense of responsibility. Only a man who faces the problem bravely can solve the problem. Charming men are often those who can control their emotions, are ambitious, have love and have a quality of life. Being a real man, showing the charm of a man, and constantly improving his economic and social status, the survival value of a man has improved, and it is just around the corner to save love.
Everything seems simple, but in fact, it requires the executor to have strong perseverance, good mentality and stable emotions, otherwise many people will be emotionally collapsed because they don't get a good response from the other side halfway, and they can't continue to implement and operate. The road to recovery must go through hardships before it can reach the end.
Four? Teach you five ways to save your girlfriend. Teach you five ways to save your girlfriend. Is it really worth saving a centrifugal lover? There are only zero and countless times of derailment. Women often indulge in the illusion of love. Floating feelings are not worth wasting time. Here are five ways to save your girlfriend!
1, dare to admit mistakes and ask for forgiveness
In many cases, most girls are emotional animals. Sometimes they don't really want to break up. It's very likely that they just want to be charming with you and have a bad temper. At this time, you can coax your girlfriend well. Of course, it takes methods to coax your girlfriend. It can't be solved by simply saying "I was wrong". You must carefully analyze your mistakes, so that girls can feel very sincere.
2. Improve your appearance
Maybe the reason why your girlfriend broke up with you is because of her untidy appearance, which is very untidy and careless, while your girlfriend is the opposite example, which is very clean, so the two people are very incompatible. If you want to save your girlfriend at this time, Xiao Bian suggests that you can get each other's good feelings by changing your image. Let the other person obviously feel that you are changing. By buying some clothes, hairstyles and punching in the gym, you can change your sloppy living habits and gradually become clean. Even if you don't have to save it, I believe your girlfriend will come back.
3. Find the problem
In many cases, it is because of emotional breakup, which is also called false breakup. Generally, most of the girls are in a temper. In daily life, you just need to admit your mistake and apologize. But sometimes it's a true breakup and you don't realize it. You must be careful. Most of the true breakups of girls are caused by careful consideration. It's useless to apologize at this time.
It is suggested that we must find out the problem in time, and analyze the causes of the problem, why it has led to all this, and find and solve the problem in time, so as to greatly improve the chances of saving girls.
4. Play "emotional cards"
Most girls are sentient animals, even if you break up, you will still leave a lot of good memories, so when we save them, our language vividly describes the good memories between them, reminding the other party of your goodness and recalling your dribs and drabs in life, which will increase the chances of recovery.
At this time, we can also make some small gifts for girls, often girls are very easily moved, so that the chances of winning back are very great.
5. Give girls their favorite things
In many cases, it is because girls think that the other party doesn't care about themselves, because the man is busy with work for a long time and can't accompany the girls at all.
At this time, we must show that we still care about girls, and we can buy something that girls love to eat or do, so that when girls see that you have bought her favorite friend, they will definitely think that you still have her in your heart, and then you will show sincerity, which will greatly improve the chances of recovery.
Five? Only by looking at the emotional problems that everyone encounters can we better solve our own emotional problems. (1) Answer to the first emotional question:
Q: A girl I know has a boyfriend, but she still often asks me out to play. I also tried to get close to her, such as holding hands and hugging my waist, which can be done, but kissing is very resistant to her. To be honest, I have feelings for her, but I always feel like a spare tire. I am very contradictory now and I don't know what to do.
A:? First of all, you should consider whether this woman is worthy of your love. A girl with a boyfriend can maintain this relationship with you. Do you think this girl is a good girl in the traditional sense? If, even if she and you are good, can you keep you from becoming her current boyfriend? If you can still accept it, let's talk about kissing again. Kissing is a relatively private action. In addition to attracting girls, you need a private environment, just the two of you, so the success rate should be greater.
(2) Answers to the second emotional question:
Q: Teacher, there is a new female colleague in our unit. Seven years younger than me, and I have known each other for five days. I added her friend on the first day, and we talked very well in the first five days. But her civil servant entered the interview and signed up for the interview class. The day before she left, I asked her out to see a movie and catch a doll. I wanted to invite her to dinner, but she didn't eat. She ate some noodles with me. When chatting, I asked her how many boyfriends she had had before, and she also asked me how many girlfriends I had had. When I drove her home, I deliberately didn't stop at her downstairs, and then her hand touched the gear lever to stop me. I touched her hand conveniently, but I let go. Then the next day I tried to find her, and she wouldn't come out. I bought fruit and sent it to her. Later, she sent me a wechat saying that it was slow. Now she has gone to see the study in the interview class, which is completely closed. WeChat also ignores me. I thought she should have a good impression on me. Now it's hard to even reply to a WeChat. I wonder what I should do next.
A: Never blame yourself for your sister's bad response. Just because your life is not busy doesn't mean that your sister is not busy. There are 1000 situations that cause a girl to be in a bad mood and thus respond badly to you. What you have to do now is not to set your sister as not interested in you, but to let her spend her study time quietly. Don't contact her until she is busy. And you need a complete love model, for example, don't chase the goddess in our family, otherwise you are just dating aimlessly, and it is futile to know how to upgrade your relationship with your sister.
(3) The answer to the third emotional question:
Q: She was a colleague I met when I joined the company. She was happy to chat at first, but after meeting her once, she didn't behave very well because she was nervous. The next day, I told her that I was a junior college student because she always thought I was an undergraduate and she was a graduate student in a key university. After telling her, I didn't talk to her for two days. Now she is very cold to me and almost doesn't want to talk. I don't know why. Do I still have a chance?
A: The concept of educational level is really ridiculous. I know a lot of people with low academic qualifications. I also know a lot of highly educated people who don't get along well. Maybe girls don't care what your education is, but you care. When you care, then women certainly follow your thinking. First of all, you should not mind your education at all, because it is really not a your barrier. Then your indifference is particularly inexplicable, which will give a woman the feeling that you feel inferior and dare not talk to her. What you have to do now is to have no need for her first, behave better in the company, and it is best to let your sister know. Only when a sister sees that you are constantly growing can she attract her attention, and then you may have another chance to get this girl.