Nine kinds of people you should stay away from in life. You will meet all kinds of people along the way. These people may or may not help you. It is actually a wonderful thing to choose peers to watch the scenery of life together. There are nine kinds of people you should stay away from.

Nine kinds of people you should stay away from in life 1 1. Don't say thank you

Or, say thank you to others, but never say thank you, or always say thank you, but you can clearly see that he doesn't know the true meaning of the word thank you at all, and takes these two words as a mantra. Obviously, this is a person who doesn't treat you like a person. They just use you to do this and that to satisfy their wishes, but they have never expressed their sincere gratitude to you. Even if they don't say thank you, they just want to continue to use others. In fact, they are stealing time, like parasites. Leave them alone!

Second, people without credibility.

A man who just said to call you for a while fell into the sea. I promised you something, but I didn't do it. It slipped my mind. Or, I am lazy and busy today, "to those who prevaricate." After a long time, they didn't keep their promises. Whether a person has credibility or not is the basic quality of a person. There is something deeper here: honesty.

Imagine, can you be friends with someone who didn't keep his promise on the phone? Can you be his husband and wife with peace of mind? You can see the leopard in the pipe. Look at the big picture from the small. He can't keep his promise even for small things, let alone big things. Don't tie your life with such a wayward person, it will break your heart. In the future, if you have gray hair or get married, it's too late to regret it.

Third, selfish people.

In fact, this is somewhat similar to the above two points. Selfishness is the kind of person who is only kind to himself and doesn't treat people other than himself as people. People with the above two characteristics are basically selfish people. There is only one bowl of rice left, and he has eaten it all, whether you are hungry or not. You worked hard to cook a table of dishes, and he wolfed it down without waiting for you. Wait ... these people treat you not as a person, but as a slave. Servants are their whole life, but they only know how to take, just like worms in people's stomachs, they don't know how to pay.

Can you tolerate such selfishness? I've always wondered how there are such people in the world. On the other hand, if there are such people, there must be a market to accept them. That means that there are victims who can tolerate such people, and selfish people will have special attractions-for example, most beautiful women have bad temper, but some people value beauty! There is no way out, only good and bad collocation. You want this, you have to put up with that. The question is: think about it, can you endure it all your life?

Fourth, people who don't really love you.

It is better to find someone who loves you than to find someone who loves you. This is the view of many people. It is rare for you to love someone who loves you. Extremely difficult, most people can't stand the passage of time and finally find such a person. Can you treat him wholeheartedly? Treat the girl of your dreams? On the other hand: you find someone you love but don't love you. It's like finding a stone all your life. The stone is still hot after being covered for a long time. But love is not, it is a feeling, yes and no! Will you prove your greatness with your precious life? Compared with your precious life, what's so great about this greatness? You wasted your most precious life. What's the use of greatness It's no use. Like a pile of shit.

5. refuse to make a promise, but don't let go.

Maybe I regard you as the last straw. Don't worry, as long as it is not the last step and the crisis of falling off the cliff immediately, he (she) will never choose you. Are you still intoxicated with their ambiguous and dark feelings? Don't be ridiculous, people just regard you as the last choice. Or treat you as a bosom friend and just want to pour out my heart to you? Do you want to be a good couple for a hundred years? What makes you think that? Always treat you as my good friend! You will always be my reliable friend and you can only be my good friend. When I am upset, when I am depressed, when my boyfriend and girlfriend are in conflict, that is when I need you. You must obey my call.

When it's all over, it's calm and clear, you have to get rid of it. You can't say it's easy to ask God to send God, but it puzzles me even more! That's absolutely impossible. Don't worry about the cost! Because we are good friends? Did I express anything special to you? When you are angry and ignore him (her), it is not long after. A phone call and a short message from him (her) rekindled your hope. Come on! Upper splint. You were born to pull the donkey's life Who told you that you were so unlucky to meet such a master of employing people, and the people who were used were very sweet? Gentle trap, knowing that you can't see tomorrow's sun, you still dream like Ah Q, and you are like an addict. Don't get me wrong! Just ordinary friendship.

Isn't that what good friends are like? Good friends? Please don't torture our difficult friend! Let them go. For some people, it's like a lion eating a lamb. They don't ask the lamb, Do you like being eaten by us? How do you like to be eaten? They won't ask you, do you love being used by me? ...... Hehe ... Some people are born to take advantage of others and do whatever it takes. This is also the person we are leaving.

6. People whose ideas are difficult to communicate.

Again: Jiao Da of Jiafu can't fall in love with Lin MM. First of all, they are not in the same class. One is a petty bourgeoisie and the other is a part-time job. Let's talk about the ink in the belly first, regardless of the nature difference. Do you think these two people can exchange? I have a deep understanding: can a person who only knows how to eat and drink and dress up beautifully communicate with a person who asks for mountains and rivers and empty valleys? It's not out of touch, it's not high or low, everyone eats and goes to the toilet, but ... with such people, can children born in the future become useful people to society with such parental education? It's even useless, but it's good not to harm society.

Seven, people with very different living habits.

The rivers and mountains may change, but not one's essential nature I'm talking about two people really far apart. Being together like this is undoubtedly a kind of purgatory for both sides. Such people, rather than suffering together, might as well leave at the beginning. We are not teachers, there is no need to spend a lot of energy to get rid of their habits. Let's go and find someone with similar habits!

Eight, people who are very different from themselves

People in this world, looking for the other half, what is the other half? Actually, I'm looking for another self. This self can be 99% similar to you, but in the end it must be a little different, at least in terms of gender. Not a family, not a house. Once, I was shocked by a photo of a couple. How is this like twins? The difference is that women's hair is longer. So-called: seeking common ground while reserving differences. Who can find someone exactly like himself?

Sometimes it's annoying to look at yourself. Don't bother to find someone like yourself! But it can't be different. As mentioned above, people who are far away from everything they have, two people together, will mesh together like two new gears and cooperate tacitly. I'm afraid both of them are scarred by grinding, so it's better to start over and find a gear with tacit understanding. After running in, everyone has nothing to lose. Everyone's injuries are less. You see such people are more pleasing to the eye and more comfortable.

Nine, no sense of responsibility.

With such people, you can't see tomorrow, and there is no clear blueprint for the future. Just wasting your precious youth in one day is mostly because you are young and immature. External conditions don't allow it, but all this can't be an excuse to avoid responsibility. No one's life is peaceful, and we have been fighting against fate all our lives. It can be said that if you keep pressing the gourd, the gourd will get up again. Press the ladle and the gourd will get up again.

The external conditions can't be perfect, the world is changing, but even after another 10 thousand years, it won't change into that beautiful dream in your mind. This world is not for you alone. Some things can't wait, but they must be done at the same time. You can't stop the world to adapt to your rhythm. I'll work on this first, and put that one aside in advance. When you finish this thing, do another thing. Then you may miss something forever. We don't know what you missed.

In life, there is the possibility of random accidents anytime, anywhere, forever. Because life is not a train running on a given track. It is unconstrained and capricious. Learn to improvise and deal with problems flexibly, instead of procrastinating blindly, missing the best opportunity, or spinning around in circles. Or abandon b for a, abandon a for b ... some miracles that can only occur once in a lifetime will appear one after another at the same time, sometimes even three or four at the same time. what are you going to do？ Focus on one, miss the others, and never come to you again.

If you want to buy something, you must pay. If you want to enjoy your rights, you have to do your duty. The two are inseparable. When you enjoy it, you must bear your share of the responsibility. Men support their families and women have children. Women who don't want to get married and men who don't want children are all people who avoid criticism. They only know pleasure. These people should leave.

Nine kinds of people who should stay away from life II. 1 people: people with deep talents.

People with deep talent may not be malicious to you, nor will they harm you or cheat you, but without talent and scheming, it is hard to tell their true feelings. Get along with them, you will only suffer. In addition, people with deep minds are very calculating. With them, you are easy to be used by them. Even if you make any achievements, you will make wedding clothes for others.

The second kind of people: people who like flattery.

Although this kind of person is full of sweet words and shows positive enthusiasm for you, all this is based on your usefulness to him. Once he doesn't need you, he will abandon you like a shoe, with no goodwill at all, and even leave you when you are down and out, so be sure to stay away.

The third kind of people: mercenary people.

This kind of person only has interests in his eyes, and may betray you and hurt you at any time, no matter how close you were to him. Such people can never be trusted. If you have no choice but to get along with him, you must be careful.

The fourth kind of people: people who hate poverty and love wealth.

This kind of people like to divide people into three classes and treat them differently. For the rich and powerful, they are eager to please, but for the poor who have no money and no power, they have no sympathy or pity, only disgust. If you are not rich and have no power, but an honest man, it is better to stay away from such people.

The fifth kind of people: people who break their promises and become fat.

Such people are used to talking nonsense, making promises easily, patting their chests, but never keeping their promises, just to say hello or deceive others. People can't stand if they don't believe it. For those who break their promises and become fat, naturally stay away.

The sixth kind of people: talkative people.

This kind of person may have no special purpose, but he can't control his tongue, likes to make irresponsible remarks, spread the privacy of others, and intentionally or unintentionally create conflicts and contradictions between people. Therefore, it is wise to stay away from such people as much as possible. Otherwise, you should always be careful that he tells your secret.

The seventh kind of people: people without principles.

Such people don't know how to respect themselves or others. They are too slick to do things with a bottom line. This kind of person may behave like a dog and even make you feel envious, but this kind of behavior will not last long, and it is often based on hurting others, so you must stay away.

The eighth kind of people: lazy people.

If you live with the lame, you will learn to limp. Lazy people do the most harm to themselves, but they also bring great negative energy to people around them, and may bring people around them to his "tunnel" and become idle and fair-weather friends, so it is better to stay away.

The ninth kind of people: people who have no filial piety.

All virtues: filial piety comes first. Filial piety is a person's most fundamental quality. The parents who gave birth to him and raised him are not filial and don't know how to be grateful. How can you expect a person to be good to you? Therefore, people without filial piety should stay away, at least, don't be intimate.