Which do you choose, bread or love? This multiple-choice question is often asked by people. Do you want to cry in a BMW or laugh on a bicycle? The answer varies from person to person. Most people want to have it both ways, but how can you have it both ways?
Lin Fangwen is a great genius, Cheng Yun loves talents, and Lin Fangwen can satisfy Cheng Yun's bread. In love, Lin Fangwen is a person who is not good at revealing himself. He always hides himself so deeply that even Cheng Yun can hardly understand him, which makes them have many knots that can't be opened. Cheng Yun's complex is tied to Lin Fangwen. Despite Xu Qifei's care, he still can't forget Lin Fangwen. Even if Lin Fangwen makes her cry, Cheng Yun finally chooses Lin Fangwen.
Lin Fangwen can make Cheng Yun happy. He will write songs for her. At the same time, he will forget that she is waiting for him because he wrote songs for Cheng Yun. He will also make Cheng Yun cry.
Cheng Yun is far away in other countries, and Lin Fangwen is waiting for her to return home with a missing paper plane, but when Cheng Yun left angrily, Lin Fangwen brought other women home.
It is such a contradictory man who will give her happiness and also cause her pain.
Cheng Yun's bread, Lin Fangwen can easily satisfy her, but Cheng Yun's love, Lin Fangwen can't give it. At first, Cheng Yun left resolutely, but she never forgot Lin Fangwen. Even though Lin Fangwen hurt her many times, Cheng Yun finally chose to forgive and love, and stayed with Lin Fangwen.
On the surface, love and bread are harvested, but is this really the case? I don't think so. Lin Fangwen is an untimely bomb. He is a person who won't take the initiative to admit his mistake. If there is any contradiction between them again, Cheng Yun needs to mediate first, otherwise he will end up leaving. Of course, it is undeniable that Lin Fangwen will also give Cheng Yun happiness.
But happiness is more deadly than pain. In this kind of love, Cheng Yun is humble. Lin Fangwen's betrayal, she can only choose to submit to humiliation and turn a blind eye. As long as she chooses to be with Lin Fangwen, she needs to endure the harm that Lin Fangwen may give her.
Love is a wonderful thing, it can make a person give up self-esteem. But in the real world, people need material needs besides spiritual food, and this is bread. I once asked a friend, "Which would you choose, love or bread?"
She said, "Bread." Without the slightest hesitation, "since there is no way to have good feelings, the money is not bad."
This is very reasonable, and it also speaks the voice of many people at the moment. I once saw someone say this on the Internet: "Now love can't resist the temptation. Love is not for living. Why don't I choose money? Even if love is gone, I still have money, and I can use it to rebuild myself."
There is an old saying "but not as those know it who have been poor together" since ancient times. Without material foundation, there is no spiritual pursuit. Maslow's hierarchy of needs puts physiological needs at the first level. It is necessary for two people to live together. Only by satisfying the daily necessities, soy sauce, vinegar and tea can they have peace of mind and love.
No matter how strong the love is, if there is no bread, two people have no time and no mood to maintain love in order to get bread, then no amount of love will disappear.
Alas, since when, we have been living with material desires. The reality is so brave that we have no struggle to knock a group of people down and become prisoners.