1. For young people who don't have mines at home, true independence is not wearing famous brands, living in high-class suites and traveling abroad, but healthy body, a lot of deposits and good cognition. When people around them need help, they have the capital to solve problems easily. When they encounter great difficulties, they have the ability to kill them. They don't have to go home to eat the elderly or borrow money from friends for help.

2. Two moments of sudden growth: one is to lose the person who loves you the most, and the other is to lose the person who loves you the most.

Anyone who bothers you will be comfortable as long as you are willing to stay away. If you don't stay away, you will always feel uncomfortable.

4, shop around, but remember not to be greedy. No matter how cheap it is, only the second you place an order, you feel that you have earned it, and every moment you use it later will be very bad; Good things are expensive, but they are worth it. Meat hurts when you buy it, but you are extremely happy when you use it every day.

5, read a person, don't read his superficial behavior, learn to read his underlying logic, this is the real maturity.

6. What really makes you grow is the things that make you afraid, escape and hurt.

7. Time will only pass, and it won't make you grow. Judge whether a person is mature or not, not by age, but by mind.

8. If you encounter "life ETC", just ignore it. Some people, like ETC, push the bar automatically 24 hours a day. If such people don't talk about length, summer insects can't talk about ice, which can greatly improve your happiness index.

9. Consciously and constantly improve yourself.

10, the adjectives you use when evaluating others will be habitually applied to you. This is called "unconscious feature transfer". People are mutual. Treat others as you want them to treat you.

1 1. Choosing to work has a chance of promotion, and choosing to start a business has a chance of getting rich. Only those who hesitate in the middle will not succeed.

12, any unconditional sacrifice and effort is to label yourself as cheap. It is foolish to give generously without any respect. If a bad guy doesn't want to help one day, he will immediately become a villain; And when a villain does a good thing one day, people will think, "This person is not bad."

13. As soon as the leader pays attention to you, you say what you want and do what you want. You think this is sincere, but it's actually stupid. Don't make yourself a careless worker. The more people who expose themselves unreservedly, the more contemptuous and vigilant the leaders are. First of all, learn to keep 30% mystery to anyone forever, and then be a person who can be taken seriously when telling the truth.

14, human thought, like mathematical equations, has a linear regression. That fixed point is your own core thinking cognition, the average of the five closest people around you and what kind of person you are.

15, study hard and don't just shout slogans.

16. Keep reading and learn to think independently.

If you spend more than 3 hours on entertainment every day, such as playing games and brushing videos, then I recommend reading, which is of great significance to the reshaping and progress of your life. Change the lazy state, and you can change the state of life. Life, health, workplace and intelligence, the harder you manage, the better these four things will become.

17, there are no shortcuts in life.

18, you can't force yourself to finish it again and again, you will become the greatest possibility.

19, everyone has regrets, but when there is a chance to do it again, not many people can catch it.

20. At work, I will give you something that you have never touched before, so that you can finish it within the specified time. At first, you will have no idea. After a series of crazy searches for materials and templates, you will piece together works that you can't look directly at. You will start to doubt yourself, and you will be dissatisfied or even accused by your boss.

Then you change it over and over again. If you can't do it once, do it twice, and finally you make a finished product that no one can find fault with. This is growth, and this is how experience is accumulated. No one is an exception.