And this society has higher requirements for men. If a man is willing to be mediocre, live a passive life in Nuo Nuo and can't afford a home, it's obviously like an animal without a backbone, which makes people look down on him and he can't stand on his feet.
In fact, who doesn't want to achieve worldly success, have a house, a car and a deposit, and embark on the peak of life, but how can you gain without paying? Those who look beautiful don't know how much hard work we can't see behind them. Generally speaking, the more worthless a man is, the more he will have such characteristics, and the more he is, the harder it is to turn over.
be fond of eating and averse to work
It is an unchangeable truth that there is no gain if you pay, but there is no gain if you don't pay. Now this society is so developed, but as long as you are diligent and dare to take action, you will gain more or less.
What I am most afraid of is that some men are lazy, either staying at home and gnawing at the old, or constantly changing jobs. They dislike the low salary of this job and the tiredness of that job, which leads to nothing. Finally, people of their own age persist in a certain post and make small achievements in a certain field, but it is a long story.
Laziness is the root of futility. As long as a person is diligent, it is impossible to be down and out to the extreme. After all, there is a saying? Heaven rewards diligence? .
No goal, always in a daze.
In this life, people must think clearly about what they really want, have a clear plan for the future, and have a clear goal. People will be full of energy and move in the direction they want step by step. Even if they encounter difficulties, they will not be discouraged, but will be more frustrated and brave.
People without goals, like ships sailing on the sea, have lost navigation and can only go ahead blindly, often getting more and more confused, unable to find the motivation to persist, and finally can only waste themselves.
The heart is higher than the sky, but it is not down to earth.
People must have a clear understanding of themselves, their own strengths, their own shortcomings, their position, the position they will reach, etc., and they must know fairly well, neither belittle themselves nor be arrogant, but have a good understanding, be themselves in a down-to-earth manner, accumulate their own strength little by little, and finally achieve accumulation.
However, some men often have an unrealistic understanding of themselves and always feel that they are awesome. However, when they really implement them, they will be exposed. They are always good at constantly boasting about themselves and covering up their incompetence. Such people are really sad and ridiculous, and it is inevitable that they will achieve nothing in the end.
I dare not rush when I meet something, but I only know how to escape.
People can't have smooth sailing in this life, and it is inevitable to encounter twists and turns. Life is also a process of constantly breaking through the customs. Once we pass the customs, we have to break through the next customs without stopping, and our ability is cultivated in the process of constantly breaking through the customs.
However, some men have no courage at all. They don't think of ways to solve things when they encounter them. They only know how to escape, and maybe they can escape for a while. But these problems are like snowballing, which eventually becomes the last straw to crush the camel.
The most useless thing in this world is the gentleness of men who have accomplished nothing. This gentleness is poison to women, but also an escape and irresponsibility to men themselves.
We only come to this world once, so we might as well be bold in life, throw off all the shackles and do what we want, pursue a dream, love a person well and be an upright person.