There is a big difference between a dowry girl and a bride-in-law girl. Although they have the same status and are doing the same thing, they have different positions on many things.

Let's talk about the dowry girl first. What is the dowry girl? It is the dowry brought by the man's wife. They used to be maids who were close to the woman in the woman's house. After the woman got married, she married with the hostess to the man's house. Generally, the better the family situation, the more dowry girls she brought. After the dowry girl is married to the man's home with the hostess, she needs to meet the needs of the man in addition to continuing to serve the hostess.

A maid is a maid who used to serve the master. Generally speaking, she either served the master from an early age, or her parents personally assigned her when their children reached a certain age. For example, the attacker in a Dream of Red Mansions was personally assigned to Baoyu by the Lady Dowager, and the identity of the attacker is the identity of the maid. Anyone who has seen the Red Chamber knows that the attacker has more words

in the maid. Generally, the housemaid and other male hosts continue to be housemaids after they get married, but for the hostess, this housemaid is the thorn in her side. After all, the dowry maid is brought by herself and can be controlled.

moreover, as far as the future destination is concerned, the maid who has a room is also miserable. If she stays in the house better, she will not worry about eating and drinking, but it is estimated that she will not live in peace for the rest of her life. Otherwise, you will get married outside the government, and generally you can't be a wife after getting married. Because the ancient thought is so feudal, who can allow someone who has passed the house with others to become his wife? On the contrary, if the dowry girl is not so prominent, she can spend her life safely.