1 Sexual behavior therapy
The occurrence of premature ejaculation is closely related to sexual intercourse anxiety. Treatment should focus on sex and focus on sensory focus exercises to eliminate mental anxiety, tension and fear. Psychologically, "stop shooting" and "squeeze method" can be used.
Stop ejaculation method: Some use changing sexual positions, postures, movements or frequency to reduce the excitability of the penis, or use distraction methods to reduce sexual excitement and extend the time of sexual intercourse. You can also pause stimulation of the penis for a moment during sexual intercourse, and focus on gentle and gentle caressing to reduce sexual excitement. When the penis is about to become weak, start twitching again, and so on, so that the ejaculation time is controlled until the woman reaches orgasm. After the period. Don't complain to each other because one or two failed experiments will affect your sexual mood. As long as couples continue to communicate feelings, summarize sexual experiences, always cooperate with each other, and improve sexual skills, the time of sexual intercourse can be extended, and they can even completely control the ejaculation time to achieve a happy and happy sexual life for couples.
Patients with premature ejaculation can also choose the time of intercourse to delay ejaculation. Some people wake up in the morning or fall asleep for a while before having sex, which can delay the time of sexual excitement; others wear a condom or apply an excitability-reducing ointment on the head of the penis to prolong the time required for ejaculation.
In addition to using methods to delay the male's sexual excitement for men who ejaculate too quickly, it is also necessary to use appropriate stimulation for the woman to advance her sexual excitement. Make more emotional exchanges before sexual intercourse, and use language and caress to make the woman feel effective and sexy, and promote the early arrival of orgasm. In fact, many couples can achieve sexual harmony and satisfaction in just 2 to 3 minutes of sexual intercourse.
Squeeze method: The woman puts her thumb on the frenulum of the man's penis, her index finger and middle finger on the coronal groove of the penis, pinches and squeezes for about 4 seconds, and then suddenly relaxes, which can cause a temporary erection of the penis. decrease. The pinching and squeezing time can be before the penis enters the vagina and after it is inserted into the vagina, rest for a moment, and then pull out the penis for pinching and squeezing. Pinch and squeeze 3 to 6 times before each sexual intercourse to extend the duration of sexual intercourse. After two weeks of treatment, most patients can take 10 to 15 minutes to ejaculate.
2. Traditional Chinese Medicine
Traditional Chinese medicine believes that the storage and release of semen is related to the dysfunction of the heart, liver, and kidneys. If the heart fire is too strong and the internal fire in the liver is fierce, the two fires intersect and disturb the Jing Guan, causing the Jing Guan to become unstable, resulting in premature ejaculation or slippery sperm; It may lead to premature ejaculation of semen; or indulgence in sexual desire may lead to exhaustion of semen, deficiency of yin and excessive fire, and the semen chamber may be burned, resulting in stubbornness and powerlessness; or a young man may accidentally commit masturbation, marry and have children too early, or overexercise, resulting in deficiency of kidney qi and loss of sealing. Solid, resulting in premature ejaculation of semen.
(1) The phase fire is blazing. Mostly due to insufficiency of desire or repeated masturbation, the liver and kidney yin and blood are depleted, and the fire cannot be hidden. In addition, due to excessive desires and unfulfilled wishes, heart fire is caused. If the two fires are fanned together, the sperm chamber will be burned, and premature ejaculation will occur due to stubbornness and inability. Patients show symptoms such as excessive sexual desire, premature ejaculation, irritability, irritability, palpitations, insomnia, restlessness, dizziness, bitter mouth and dry throat, yellow urine, red tongue with yellow coating, stringy and slippery pulse. Treatment should be to clear and purge phase fire. Recipe: Gendan Xiegan Decoction: 9 grams each of gentian and gardenia, 6 grams each of Bupleurum and Akebia, 8 grams each of Jinlingzi and Angelicae, 12 grams of Rehmannia glutinosa, 5 grams of licorice, 3 grams of coptis, and pearls. 15 grams of mother, 5 grams of Plantago, and 10 grams of Golden Cherry. Decoction in water. Chinese patent medicines: Longdan Xiegan Pills, Danzhi Xiaoyao Pills.
(2) Yin deficiency and fire excess. Young people get married early, or have uncontrolled sexual intercourse after marriage, which can lead to excessive consumption of kidney essence, resulting in yin deficiency and yang hyperactivity, sperm chamber disturbance, failure to seal, forced semen and premature ejaculation. The patient was accompanied by spermatorrhea, soreness of waist and knees, dizziness and tinnitus, palpitations, hot flashes or night sweats, restlessness and insomnia, yellow urine, red tongue with little fluid, and thready and rapid pulse. The treatment is suitable for nourishing yin and reducing fire. Use Zhibai Dihuang Decoction. Medicinal selection: 10 grams each of Anemarrhena and Cortex Phellodendron, 15 grams each of Rehmannia glutinosa and Chinese yam, 9 grams of cornus, 9 grams of paeonol bark, 6 grams of Alisma, 10 grams of wolfberry, 6 grams of Tribulus terrestris, and 9 grams of Golden Cherry. , 10 grams each of keel and oyster. Decoction in water. Chinese patent medicines: Zhibai Dihuang Pills, Da Buyin Pills, Liuwei Dihuang Pills, and Zuogui Pills.
(3) Kidney qi is not solid. People with insufficient natural endowments, excessive sexual intercourse, excessive masturbation in teenagers, or old and sick people will damage the kidney qi, resulting in kidney qi deficiency and failure, and the inability to adhere to the Jingguan, so sexual intercourse may lead to premature ejaculation. Often accompanied by nocturnal emissions, the semen is cold and thin, decreased sexual desire, soreness and weakness in the waist and knees, weakness in the lower limbs, lethargy, cold back and limbs, clear and frequent urination, frequent nocturnal urination, persistent drainage, pale, fat, large and tender tongue. The pulse is deep and weak, especially the ulnar pulse. Treatment should be to warm the kidneys and consolidate essence.
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(4) Deficiency of heart and spleen. Overthinking and overwork lead to illness, resulting in heart and spleen loss and premature ejaculation. Patients often have symptoms such as palpitations, dreaminess, poor sleep, no desire to eat, dull complexion, fatigue, loose stools, pale tongue and red pulse. , the treatment should nourish the heart and spleen, replenish qi and consolidate essence. Addition and subtraction of Fangxuan Guipi Decoction: 12 grams of Codonopsis pilosula, 10 grams of Atractylodes macrocephala, 12 grams of Astragalus membranaceus, 9 grams of Poria cocos, 9 grams of Guiyuan meat, 10 grams of jujube kernels, 6 grams of Angelica sinensis, 15 grams each of dragon bone and oyster, 10 grams of Gorgon fruit, and Schisandra chinensis. 6 grams. Decoction in water. Chinese patent medicines: Ginseng Guipi Pills, Shiquan Dabu Pills.