What kind of relatives do you hate the most? What behaviors do you hate the elders the most?
What is the most annoying relative you have ever met?
1, no culture, but also hard education, the words are still ugly, and there are a few stubborn things back and forth that are annoying.
Don't come into my room when I'm not awake! Really annoying! ! !
3. You were the only one who went to college like this when you couldn't talk to me. You were also a college student.
4. Educate you from the moral high ground, forget about me, and even look down on my parents. This is really the last thing I can bear.
5, a set of face to face, a set on the back. One side is the same.
6. When you help him with his work, he praises you for being diligent, and praises you so hard. When you don't help him, you are really lazy. Why are you so lazy? You are really lazy.
7. Relatives who are gossipy and snobbish are really wonderful. It's hard to hear what they say. It's that this child is really ignorant and has no tutor.
8. Ask your child, what's your score? Have you finished your homework? Ask the people who have already worked, what's your salary? Have you talked about anyone? Why aren't you married? Look at how old you are.
9. Ask me why I haven't found a partner yet and let me go somewhere else to develop. I wonder why you care so much. I want you to take care of it?
10, comment casually on my current life without knowing anything, and feel that they know what I want better than myself.
What kind of relatives do you hate the most? What behaviors do you hate the elders the most?
What behaviors do you hate most about your elders?
1, hurting children with "jokes" is the last mistake adults should make.
Life Times once published a statistic called the way you hate teasing children: the sentence "Your mother doesn't want you" ranked first with 19.36% of the votes.
Many people think that this is just a joke for children, but in the eyes of children, it is a great harm.
There used to be a variety show called "Let Go of My North Nose", which was for star guests to take care of their children. In one episode, Kenny Lin took a little girl named chopped green onion, but she was accused of destroying children.
The first sentence when I saw the little girl was "Where's your mother?" At that time, the little girl answered him with a smile: "Mom went to the hotel."
Maybe Kenny Lin didn't know how to communicate with her children, and in order to distance herself from them, she even threatened her children that "your mother doesn't want you".
The original smile of the chopped green onion gradually disappeared, and it seemed to be poked in tears, crying. Realizing that he had said something wrong, Kenny Lin quickly squatted down to appease the children "Don't cry, don't cry".
However, the chopped green onion still ignored him, and his mouth kept clamoring for his mother, and he didn't want to be close to Kenny Lin again.
If children are deceived and frightened by adults, they will be frustrated and feel uneasy, and sometimes they will have anger and resistance. An innocuous sentence in the eyes of adults will have a far-reaching impact on children.
On the Weibo, there is a hot topic of "Chinese-style teasing". Many people have told their experiences of being teased as children.
A netizen said: when I was unhappy or crying when I was a child, adults would make jokes. When I was older, I was accused of being too thin-skinned to even joke, and I didn't even dare to cry, so I had to hold back.
Some people are afraid to turn off the lights and sleep in their twenties because they tease him that there are ghosts at night.
Teasing children is a happy thing, but if you treat teasing children as a kind of "teasing", it will only cause psychological trauma.
Professor Fan Peifen, the vice president of Montessori, once talked about being teased by adults since childhood, and always thought that he was not born to his parents. It was not until he read psychology that he slowly began to let go, but now he still remembers the past.
Any way adults tease children will affect them more or less.