Since I was a child, my grandfather often told me not to get rid of moles. As the saying goes, if you get rid of moles, you will get rid of your blessings.
First, big eyes.
Children with big eyes are always particularly attractive. Big eyes are watery and blinking, which makes people feel very aura. In addition, children with big eyes generally have a higher face value, which is very advantageous in finding a job or an object in the future.
Second, the forehead is high and the ears are big.
The best example is Tathagata Buddha, with big ears. I didn't agree with this view before, but grandma would take Tathagata Buddha as an example, which made me feel that it was not unreasonable.
Third, the face is round
In the eyes of the older generation, a round face is the most standard and pleasing face. Such a child looks clever and cute, which means that he will be sensible and smart in the future.
First of all, newborn babies are not very sensitive to sight and hearing, but some children are very sensitive to the surrounding environment. They know to observe the world around them when they are very young, so that children will be smarter than ordinary children.
Secondly, smart children have strong imitation and learning ability. Smart babies have strong imitation ability at a very young age, for example, they can imitate father's turning over, small animals crawling, and things around them making sounds.
Again, curiosity is heavy. Bacon once said that curiosity is the bud of children's wisdom. Children's understanding of the world begins with curiosity. If the baby is always curious about the things around him, it shows that he has a strong thirst for knowledge. Such babies are generally very smart.
Then, I like to eat my hands and open my fist early. Babies like to suck their fingers, which is a sign that they are exploring things. When they meet anything new, they want to lick and taste it. But when they are old, especially after they are three years old, they still keep this habit, so they should pay attention to it and correct it in time.
At the same time, children like to hold their fists when they are young. According to the research of pediatricians, the earlier they open their fists, the smarter they are. Because any behavior on the body is dominated by the brain, so is the child's hands. His strong desire for hands shows that his brain is developing. Frequent hands-on can also promote the development of the baby's brain nerves and improve the baby's intelligence.
Finally, speak early. Generally speaking, the period from eight months to two years old is an important period for the baby's intellectual development. Smart babies can speak earlier in the process of listening and imitating. If some babies always like to whine, this is a normal phenomenon, which indicates that the baby is going to speak soon.
I have met many clever children, some with excellent memories and some with good mental arithmetic. They can all be said to be smart children. Compared with those children who can't recite an article and work out a problem, they have innate advantages.
A boy named Zhao Yong is the object that everyone looks up to in the same grade. As a junior high school student, he has a good memory. No matter how long a text is, he can recite it accurately as long as he reads it once. Besides, he is also good at math. Often, the teacher writes a question on the blackboard, and he gets the answer before the teacher finishes writing it. Even the teacher says that he is a rare talent.
It happened that such talents knew some "bad children" when they entered the second day of junior high school. They smoked and drank with them, and they were ignorant and always skipped classes to go to Internet cafes. Parents were helpless and teachers were deeply sorry.
Therefore, it is a waste of talents to have innate excellent genes and not to cultivate them well.
First, understand the characteristics of children.
Education pays attention to different people. As parents, they should know the difference between their children, know what they like and dislike, and focus on cultivating them.
Don't blindly cultivate, every child is unique, they all have their own personality, and school education is unified, which can't cultivate children's personality. If your child has innate advantages in other aspects, such as painting, dancing or piano, then as a parent, you should cultivate children's talents as much as possible if conditions permit.
Second, care for children.
As parents, we should give our children enough care, let them feel the warmth of the family, communicate with them more, pay attention to the tone and way in the process of communication, and don't implicate negative emotions in their children.
For younger children, Bao Bao Bao Ma can tell them bedtime stories before they go to bed, which can arouse their thinking. At ordinary times, they can also take their children to see the outside world, get in touch with new things, broaden their horizons and increase their knowledge.
Again, practice more.
When children are young, Bao Baba and Bao Ma can scientifically teach their children to walk, talk and draw. Some parents also teach their children to recite many ancient poems and learn many languages when they are very young, but remember, don't be overloaded. After all, children are still young and his endurance is limited.
Then, develop children's intelligence.
If parents find that their children have innate advantages, such as being interested in numbers and sums, they can appropriately expose their babies to more numbers and remember them, such as pi.
At the same time, play more intellectual games with children, such as games that are conducive to developing the brain. In this way, the child not only enhances the intimacy with his parents, but also develops his own intelligence. In addition, his logical thinking ability and reaction ability can be exercised.
How many children were naive and lively, good children of parents and good students of teachers, but they were "off-course" on the road of growth, and no one around them corrected him in time at this time, which led him to go further and further on this wrong road.
Therefore, what Bao Baba and Bao Ma have to do is to accompany their children to grow up and be the guiding light on the road of their growth.
Message from the author
There may not be many children born with high IQ, but there are countless geniuses cultivated. What matters is not whether the genes are good or not, but whether Bao Bao Bao Ma has noticed the children's "extraordinary".
Do a good job of children's "bole" and find the flash on their bodies, so that they can take fewer detours on the road of life!