[Edit this paragraph] Definition: [Edit this paragraph] Origin: Ancient handkerchiefs, and there is another name-Partridge, which is a handkerchief made of plain silk one foot square. In ancient poetry, it is often used to express the handkerchief for wiping tears, that is, the yarn woven by mermaids. "Spring is as old as ever, people are empty and thin, and tears are red and sorrowful." "It's not sad to give a gift with a large scale!" The ancients also used to express their feelings on poems, which were called "geometer". Gradually, geometer became a synonym for letters between lovers. "The ruler is like a remnant of snow, forming a pair of carp. To know what's in your heart, look at the book in the curtain. " [Edit this paragraph] About a close friend in a boudoir A woman will always have one or several close friends in her life, even if she has gone through the lead and has a lot of children and grandchildren, it will not hinder their communication. This is a very personal part, just like if there is, you can't say it to the opposite sex, and you will make mistakes when you say it; Some things can't be done to the opposite sex, and it's troublesome to do it once. [Edit this paragraph] Where do the close friends in the boudoir come from? The first kind of close friends in the boudoir must remember that Xiaoyu. Sui Bo Xiaoyu, Maruko's best friend, goes home with Maruko and has lunch. She is Maruko's deskmate, and her greatest wish is to be with Maruko forever. In your life, is there such a friend as Xiaoyu? This kind of close friends come from classmates and neighbors in childhood or school, because she is your bosom friend and sometimes even knows yourself better than yourself. Such a close friend is the shadow of your life. No matter how far you go, she will still follow you. Then, slowly, you will find that the close friends in childhood and school will fade away because of reality, family fatigue, secularity, and the difference in status and income between the two sides. The second kind of close friends in the boudoir Another kind of close friends in the boudoir, is in the process of your growth, or in the process of your struggle for your career, because of accidental reasons, get to know each other. Our desire and need for friendship are often as elusive as love. A close friend in a boudoir may have been acquired through the same pains, because * * * has experienced some hardships, known each other's character and temperament, and seen people's hearts for a long time, so there is a reason to trust. The relationship between Soong Ching Ling and her maid Li Jie belongs to the sisterhood of such close friends. Soong Ching Ling, who was born with golden branches and jade leaves, saw the prosperity of the world and was known as the mother of a generation, was accompanied by Sister Li in her later years. Sister Li is the only and last contact between Soong Ching Ling and her family. On the night when the moon is as cool as water, Soong Ching Ling, who is far away from her favorite family in her life, has touched the string of missing, but only Li Jie can comfort her and tell some old Song family sayings to relieve her feelings. When Sister Li died, Soong Ching Ling was heartbroken and buried in the Song family cemetery, and the sisterhood inside turned into eternal companionship. There is also a kind of close friend in the third kind of boudoir. It's not that they have much in common, or have experienced the ups and downs of life together, but in front of her, you can put down all the camouflage and be strong, and you can reveal the secrets that have been difficult for a long time. Just because of her kindness, tenderness, or rationality and intelligence, you are willing to share a secret with her, and at the same time, you will get understanding, wisdom and courage; Sometimes, even when the other person is a mirror, he can see himself clearly while talking. [Edit this paragraph] Summary Therefore, every woman, in her long life, must have several close friends who are like sisters. This kind of friend has a warm name, which is called "close friends in the boudoir". The mutual affection of a close friend in a boudoir is thin and endless, and it is endless for a lifetime. However, the friendship between women must be well measured, and they should be close to each other at a certain distance, so that the friendship between you can be kept fresh for a long time. In your's friendship, the most important thing is to respect each other's privacy. Don't take "don't say anything, don't talk about anything" as the highest standard of affection. Whether you are a bosom friend or not is not the number of words, but the key is understanding. And true friendship is not doomed by God, but won by yourself. Exchange your heart for another heart, and great friendship will be born. Of course, if faced with great temptation, sincerity may also be betrayed. This is a despicable act, but sometimes it is human nature. So in order to avoid this situation, we should be strict with ourselves, respect others, and carefully choose every friend. We often see female companions in twos and threes, holding hands together, whispering, finely and euphemistically in the rattan chairs of tea houses, in the lights of bars, or on the benches in the afternoon sun ... The words of close friends in the boudoir are always endless stories-just like women's hair, tied up and put down, endless. Extended reading:1./question/3736739.htmlOpen classification: