What's the hottest drama these days? It must be "Those Things of Husband and Wife" starring Huang Lei and Chen Ji! This drama is a great hit with the difficult problems in marriage and life: such as dinks, mid-life crisis, empty nesters, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, strong women and weak men, extramarital affairs, divorce and remarriage, etc., which has aroused a wide range of social repercussions. Recently, the reporter interviewed Chen, as a married woman in life and the heroine of the drama, Chen shared the way of marriage management.

To have a child or to have a career

Drama: Lin Jun is a very good designer, her biggest dream is to design a landmark building like the Bird's Nest and Water Cube one day, and her career struggles have also prevented 36-year-old Lin Jun from having time to have a child. Although her husband, who is a financial director, expressed tolerance and understanding, the pressure from her mother-in-law and her father-in-law's last wish when he passed away ultimately made the two of them unable to "dink". Lin Jun decided to solve this life event, the price is to sacrifice their career ......

Chen: In fact, Chen and Lin Jun have a lot of similarities, and Lin Jun similar age, career is in the ascendant, and a very loving husband, but has not yet encountered similar problems in the drama: "My husband and his family are very supportive of my work, he's in the arts and understands better my pursuit of the arts and what I'm capable of, he's clear that I'm in the business." In her view, the modern society, on the one hand, men want women to become full-time wife, but at the same time, due to the pressure of life and other reasons, it is impossible to realize, so in the relationship between husband and wife respect and tacit understanding is particularly important, the compromise naturally need to be there, but not only limited to the female side, the male side of the compromise is also very important.

How to face the triviality of marriage

Plot: Lin Jun's mother-in-law is an elementary school teacher, but still has some worldly qualities. For example, she likes to go through Lin Jun's things, and she can smile at her daughter-in-law on weekdays, but as soon as she gets upset, she adds fuel to the fire by counting her daughter-in-law's various faults in front of her son, and Lin Jun feels full of aggression. As a son, Tang Peng is caught in the middle, and although he sometimes understands that his mother is in the wrong, he will also take it out on his wife ......

Chen Qiu: The trivialities of the family that marriage extends are not the point of marriage. Chen Qi agrees with Lin Jun's attitude in the drama, never choosing to turn the other cheek even when she is wronged. She firmly believes that in dealing with these family issues, one only needs to grasp one point, to be reasonable in everything. In fact, Chen does this in real family life. "Every night, also I accompany the child (husband Zhao Yinyin and his ex-wife have a son) to sleep, take the child to the doctor, but I have never asked the child to call me mom, call me Chen number aunt can be ...... He has a mother, why should I force him to change his mouth?"